Documentation. Do you do it?
I was wondering how many of you document things about your SK's and BM? I have some specific questions, if you don't mind.
1) Do you document
2) Do you do it or does DH/SO
3)What types of things do you document
4) Have you actually used this documentation for any purpose? Either in Court or given BM/BD the list to prove a point in a personal negotiation.
What has been the result? Was it worth it?
I have been asking DH from day one to document every phone call from BM and every request. He thinks it's a good idea, but has been so beaten down by BM he doesn't beleive it would ever do any good. I asked him again last night to do it and he said "and then she will just lie and say that it's not true" I can't believe he gives her so much power.
What do you think? Worth it? Should I pick up the ball and start now, 5 years later with only one SK left for 6 more years? I would really appreciate some advice. I think we should have SD12 50/50, but even with BM working sometimes 13 hours a day she refuses to let us have her more than 28%