BM is given 5 hours visitation at the sheriff's office one weekend day a week. This weekend she told my SS to tell us that "[her first name] said she will call you about making it 3 hours". BM called my husband and told him that SS gets bored. The have tons of board games, movies, toys, outdoor b-ball court, plus she brought him his b-day presents from her that day(His b-day was August 11) and can bring in whatever she wants. She also cancelled the weekend before last, because she had "a job interview". What job interviews on a Sunday? What job interview can you not reschedule? She is unemployed due to her own fault (not the economy) and can literally interviewed Monday-Saturday.

BM is allowed to call on Tuesdays and Thursdays between 6-7:30p.m. Last night, she didn't call or even text since she just got a cell phone after not having one since 2010. She has not called on several occasions claiming "I had things to do." You have no job and only 2 opportunities to talk to you son and you chose those times to do your errands that you could have done all throughout the week when everyone else is working. Obviously from this recent stuff and everything over the years, she really and truly does not care about him. She only fights out of spite for us and for appearances. She gets a free attorney and her and her attorney have been defrauding the court by filing without paying racking up close to $1000 in filing fees. The hearing officer sees her fighting as her caring for him, but really it is just her continuing her abuse of my husband and now me. I wish/hope/pray that she would just finally give up and give us a chance at a happy life and give SS a chance at becoming a descent person.