BM spots SS at my Dr. Appt.
Yesterday I had an ultr asound at my OB office. I was offically 12 weeks yesterday. Anyway SS is with us this week so H was off and he and SS came to my appointment.
H and SS were back there when they did the ultra sound. The baby was jumping around and at one point was facing us directly throwing up it's arms and jumping as if it were saying "Hey ya'll I see you, I'm right here". It brought tears to my eyes. SS and H were by myside and when SS say the baby and it was jumping around he would kiss my arm and then lay his head on my arm and say I love StepG look at the baby ain't it cute and then kiss my arm again and lay his head on it and then hug H and tell him I love you dad and say look at our baby. It was really a sweet bonding moment.
So we are in seperate cars and H and SS are front of me and pulling out of the doctor office "The Women's Clinic" BM and her boyfriend drive by the BF waves and honks and BM is in the backseat and sorta waives at SS. They were at the hospital next to my dr. cause BF messed up his leg so neither are working now. Anyway she calls H later and tells H that is was not appropriate for SS to be at StepG dr. visits and what was he doing there. H tells her StepG had an ultra sound today and me and SS went. BM complains he should not be there I not his mom it inappropriate etc. H says I do not care what you think SS, me, and StepG are a family and this baby is going to be the newest member and hung up on her.
I suspect jealousy. SS said his mom was real happy you are having a baby StepG and I told him she has no reason not to be. See SS LOVES his little brother and BM has used that love for little brother to manipulate SS well now BM knows SS will LOVE this baby too and she cannot stand it.
So it was a sweet moment shared btw H, SS and me but was rained on when BM spotted us and complained. Today I find it funny and wish I could stick my tounge out at her and say nananabooboo!
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Congrats on your
pregnancy!!!! There's nothing at all wrong with SS going to an ultrasound appointment! She's just jealous! SS sounds so cute! What a sweetie!
Good for you for not letting her stupidty rain on your day!
She should be happy that you are including SS in these moments. You are a great SM.................I was so selfish that I didn't want anyone but DH to be there! LOL. Of course I showed everyone the pics after and all that, but that is a really precious moment and it was very loving of you to have him in the room with you and your DH.
I don't know why she would be upset over this, except jealousy. Which is sad.......
This situation could be so much worse.....you could have one of those sk's that hate that their daddy is having a baby with someone else.
When we told SD that I was pregnant she was so happy she cried. Later her mother (while cussing DH for everything he is worth) told him that she only cried because she was upset, not happy! DH said, well from her jumping up and down and hugging and kissing Jen, and rubbing her belly and kissing it and talking to the baby she sure didn't look upset! That ended that phone call.
~All you need is Faith, Trust, and a little bit of Pixie Dust~
Awwwww!
That's so sweet! And I absolutely love the way your DH told her what's what and hung up on her. Sounds like you have a wonderful family. Congratulations.
Love me or hate me, I'm still gonna shine!!!
Congradulations!
Glad that you didn't let BM ruin your day. Glad that H hung up on her. Sounds like BM is just trying to control things.
"I know God has a wonderful plan for me, I just wish He would tell me what it is"
That is awesome!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with SS being there and I think it is GREAT got to go. BM should be happy that he is treated as part of the family and appreciate it! Ugh. I know that will never happen but it should!!!!!
Again, I am so happy for you WHOLE family! BTW: did you find out the sex??
"God grant me the serenity accept the things I cannot change; the strength to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference."
They pop up at the weirdest times
So strange that she showed up then, just after you had such a special time. SS sounds sweet.
Our BM and the skids ran into us when we stopped at DH's former church before going to our
secret wedding. They stopped the car and all got out. We were in the parking lot. It was weird they
were together (SKIDS are teens). Literally 1/2 hour before our wedding.
Too strange.
StepG...
I have my first ultrasound tomorrow! I wonder if I'll be able to see as much as you were able to. I think I'm about 11 weeks now. I guess I'll find out for sure tomorrow.
I'm glad your appointment went so well. Your SS is such a sweetheart! You're so lucky!
As for BM...yeah, she's jealous! Nice way to react. This baby will be your SS's half sibling, so he has every right to enjoy the process with you & your husband. And what your husband told BM was awesome! Good for him!!!
Yeah, nothing like a psycho BM to put a cloud over an otherwise wonderful day. I know how you feel!
I would say
that you would be able to see a good bit. I went at 10 weeks and it looked like blob and 2 weeks later it looked like a baby. PM me and let me know how the visit went. Do you have names picked out for boy or girl? So exciting!