I was raised that if it's not yours keep your hands off of it! If you HAD to touch it you f-ing ASK! Somehow SD11 will not get this through her head! It doesn't matter WHAT I have, a movie, a drink, food, this child HAS to put her grubby hands on it! She doesn't do this to DH or her sister only me! It's gotten to the point that I have to lock everything of mine away from her ass. I can't even leave a sandwich on the counter to grab some chips without her touching it. (and for the record EW) god it was SO nice when they were at BMs for a month.