Imma get straight to the point; My hubby BM feels tat she is number one or suppose 2 b number one in his life{4 some unknown reason}. She had text him talking about she needed somebody 2 talk 2 n y he didnt take her back n save her from his potna she was sleeping with. The next day, she texted his phone stating he b begging her for sex; I called her n asked her wat was going on, she stated tat he had sent her a text saying dont call r text his phone; N*E ways, she told me tat she had been have sexual encounters with my husband n had been meeting him n he was giving her money and sooo on. I had her on speaker phone so he heard all she was saying; he beginning yelling n cussing talking bout she's a liar r so forth. Me, Imma get 2 da bottom of it! So I wanted to know why would she lie on u have u been communicating w/her {oh 4 da record, their daughter dont stay w/her; she lives with my hubby mother} he lied n told me no and she's a liar, so when i said she said u gave her money, he stated one time his mother told him to go meet her n give her 20 bucks!!! His BM is da author of confusion; so I told him as long as he was married to me he had nothing to say to her I mean cut all lines of communication bc da daughter doesnt live with her therefore they have nothing to talk about.

My thing is he lied to me; he could have easily told me that his mother asked him to give her 20 bucks but he didnt. Tat lead me to thinking if u lied about tat he could b lying about everything. I had a physical fight with his BM before. I feel he didnt want me to know he was communiating with her bc I asked him to cut off all ties w/her bc she say things tat will make u go knock on her door n beat her ass n he knows tis, her mouth is her worst enemy n she sleep w/his homeboys n she stated to me tat his daughter is not his, I mean its an ongoing situation with her. Remind u n tis last episode she told him tat his daughter wasnt his, but we already had her last name change w/o a DNA.

I told my hubby tat I didnt trust him anymore n if he wont tis marriage to work he have to rebuild his trust.....his BM is not his ex but b friends off n on w/his ex, so when she stated she had sexual encounters w/my hubby, I called the motel 2 get records n they had records of him being their but he tell me he wasnt with his BM he was with his ex......regardless he cheated

Right now im n a stand still mode n want 2 regain his trust n start a fresh start but tis is heavy on my mind....I asked him to tell me everything put it all on the table he made lil confessions n wants to work tis out, its gonna b had 2 trust him again n i want 2 keep tis marriage 2gather, but im like wats next!!!Where do i go from here;wat if more secrets come out then wat........