of my short little rope and I am sooooo sick of SD16. I NEED her to MOVE back with sugarmama PRONTO!!!!!

First of all, I am sick.....have strep throat and have been off work since last Monday. I had no vacation time left, so I had to just take off work and not get paid.....don't care, I do not work for money, only as a time filler. Beside the point. My boss says to me last week that they are thinking of terminating me b/c I didn't have any vacation left to take off.... Whatever! However, DH is cranky about it, so I am trying to keep the peace at work. (we work for the same company).

Second, while my children are in school, we do not use a babysitter b/c usually my dad or SD16 will watch them. They are 10 and 8 and do not require spoon feeding. However, usually SD16 does a good job watching them.....most of the time. But when she doesn't want to watch them, it is a free for all!

Third, SD16 got into some major trouble over the weekend, (see previous blog... "Gross, but need advice fast"). As a result, she has lost her phone until further notice. So, I brought the phone to work w/me so she would not be able to find it and use it while we aren't home. The stupid little boy who started this mess will NOT stop texting the phone. I have even told him that she does not have the phone. So, next he has his little sister using his moms phone to text SD's phone asking for our address. I ask "Y" and she responds that he wants to send her letters. I respons that I think he has "given her enough this year!" and I think the house phone will be good enough for now. The stupid little kid responds back with what a horrible SM I am to have taken away a phone that SD pays for,and that we should forgive him b/c GOD forgives people. blah blah blah. That sends me straight through the roof! So I text back that they'd better not EVER text me such crap again and how dare they bring GOD into it. I also asked to speak with a parent. Got no where with that request.

In the meantime, I call home to speak with my BS10 to find out what the hell SD is doing. (I really know that she is on the house phone feeding info to the sister to text me) (bitch). Soooo, SD says that my boys are outside playing.....WHAT? It's 10 flippin degrees outside, WHY are they outside? So she goes into this tyrait about how my boys are brats, etc and how she is NEVER watching them again....wah wah wah. I know that they can be hard headed, but I know what was REALLY going on. They wanted to go outside, and since she is hold up in her room on the phone, not paying any attention, they go out. GOD only knows how long they had been out there before she figured it out. I started yelling at her to get off the f'in phone and pay attention to them. She refuses to get them inside. So, I call DH at work and tell him to get his ass home and deal with his child before I walk out on my job and go home and beat the living horse crap out of her! He calls me back saying he was on his way. I haven't heard from him yet. I started crying b/c I am sick that my boys are not being properly cared for. What is a person supposed to do? Also, I asked her why the hell didn't she just move back in with sugarmama? She said fine I will and hung up on me! Good....but it wont happen. So then she calls DH and says "If you dont get her off my back, I am gonna move out". Threatening Dh? Are you kidding me? I told him that no way in HELL would I ever be threatened by a 16 y/o spoiled brat! He agreed, and said he would deal with her when he got home. My guess is that he wont exactly deal with it, just pat her butt and tell her to get over it. UGGGGHHHH this does NOT make me want to do anything for her for XMAS! I don't even want to be around her surly ass!