FIGHTING
Ok with me and my husband got married I knew that he had 2 boys. Well there fighting is getting out of hand and also found out that thoes boys are probly not evens his He has know this from day one. Well now that I know this I don't even want them to take care of them and all their fighting!!
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How old are the boys?
How long have you and your H been together? Does H try to handle the boys fighting?
If he is prepared to accept
If he is prepared to accept them as his own regardless of their DNA, then you must do so as well. For you not to accept them almost ensures your relationship has an end date.
Why doesn't he get tested?
If they are not his then in most states he wouldn't have to pay CS, but he can still let them visit and do thing with them.
~Don't fear the thorns among the Roses, but be greatful for the Roses among the thorns~
Fighting a problem too
but with girls. SD 9 and SD 13 are at each others throat constantly.
SD 12 lives with us full time. SD 9 lives with BM. Summer is here and we have a cockamamey set up of one week on, one week off (her idea of course). They are tolerable when they are not together, but for the whole friggin summer??@!?!?!?!?!?!??! OMG - it's only the 2nd full week of having them here together and I am ready to jump off the bridge! They just don't physically fight with each other either....it's constant "I'm better than you...no I'm better" all day long! I finally had a sit down with them...told them if they didn't figure out a way to get along that they could spend the entire summer together with their mother....cause I wasn't going to put up with this crap...and that summer would really suck for them because I refuse to do anything with them or for them if they are going to act like that. Do you have the boys full time?