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Will this just make me look guilty?

SadStep77's picture

My last blog was about writing a letter to SS20.

The letter just says some things I like about him; it doesn't say I'm sorry. I don't have anything to be sorry about, except that I'm not the huggy, emotionally available stepmom his dad wants me to be.

My problem is, just the fact that I'm writing this letter implies that I am in the wrong. It is kinda rubbing me the wrong way.

Maybe I should post what I've written.

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Jmom's picture

Please, please don't send this letter. If you do it'll never stop. You've got to let them know what's what and there's nothing wrong with you sticking up for yourself. I was so sad after reading your blogs. GTFO would be the only note any of them would get from me. You can make it without them. I did it. And peace of mind is too precious to give up.

SadStep77's picture

I'm not going to send it. FDH had really convinced me that all this was because of me. While I may have my moments, this is about him not keeping his own kids in line.

I feel a little vindicated with you guys saying the same things I've been thinking.