I'm the evil SM once again
I told DH that SD14's decision to move back with BM 600 miles and 2 states away is permanent. We have 2 under 2, both girls, and he's treating me like Satan himself for saying SD can't ever live with us again. He said he'd never tell any of his 3 kids that they aren't welcome home and that I would never send our bios away.
He said she's just a kid and has Stockholm Syndrome from BM. I can't even express how badly I feel about that but I'm sick of being used for BM's convenience.. SD has said she wants to come here for college but if she is so dependent on BM and barely passes high school, why would I want her here?
He truly can't understand that our bio kids will have extremely different living situations versus SD coming from a broken home. He thinks it's his duty to be SD's savior because her mom is a POS. Will my only option be divorce in 3 years? I don't want my bios to have a broken home because DH can't give up being a Disney Dad.