Constant FB issue
So DH and I felt that since we dont have a home phone and we only rely on our cell phone (which SD10 does not have) we would give her an outlet to talk with her friends by allowing her to have a FB acount which we would in turn monitor. For some of you who know our situation, you may know that BM used to call SD10 every other week but abrupty stopped calling and made up an excuse she told SD10. ( We have primary custody and BM sees her every other weekend) So BM found out SD10 has a FB page and set up a new account (aside from the current one she already had) to communicate with SD10. We have no problem with this as we are also friends with SD10, however, BM monopolizes her time on their and instead of it being an outlet to talk with friends because a way for her and BM to talk. (still fine with this). In the last week SD10 became grounded and online privaledges were taken away from her. During this time, we realized that BM was sending messages every day and then stopped. She has now started to simply block her FB page and send the messages on her wall instead to SD10 and has instructed SD10 to simply check her page to see any comments she leaves for her.
Is this a little wierd? DH saw this and wants to immediatly remove her from SD10's facebook page, which I in turn dont really agree with but dont know why exactly. Any advise on how to handle this situation, if at all?