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rcphotographer07's picture

you know, when you do things for your husband... and he doesnt do nothing for you such as can you please do the dishes. response is NO, i work all day its your job. it is not fair.. cuz, He asked me to clip his toes and nails for him, and I did things for him that he asked. and he refused to do the help that I asked. what the heck. and also, I told him you know i have done for you and you refused to help me. and he said you pay your own bills. which im low income.. 460 a month and told me i pay the car ins and car payments.. which i cannot afford and his response.. not my problem. go back to welfare life... like low life you had. I was so hurt and frustrated.. and i tried to explain.. and he wont give a shit what I say.

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rcphotographer07's picture

just now he said, i dont want to do this anymore, and i rather not to married to you and rather to be single..

Shaman29's picture

I have a friend in a similar relationship. Her DH was constantly telling her to do things for her, but always refused to do her favors. He bought things under her name because her credit is better. He refused to help with their baby. And the horrible things he would say to her, that she's ugly, that she looks like a witch, that he hates her, that he doesn't want to be married to her. The list goes on and on.

She just filed for divorce. She grabbed the kid, her stuff and moved in with her parents until the divorce is final and she can get a condo she can afford.

You really need to take a look at this relationship and decide if this is the way you want treated. Because it sounds like you can do a heck of a lot better.

Good luck!

Disneyfan's picture

If 2 people are married,how can one be low income, but not the other?

What you do is pack your shit and leave his ass.

Why would you stay with a man who looks down on, doesn't respect you and treat you like crap?

overworkedmom's picture

Do you have any access to bank accounts, investments, anything? You need to take as much as you can and bounce! It sounds like you are in an abusive relationship and no one deserves to be treated or spoken to like that!