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notastepyet's picture

SS7 informs me this morning that he "sweated" on the couch. Which is his code for pissed on.....he slept on the couch past night. 7 and still pissing the bed.....7 and still won't wipe his own ass when he poops.....I can't roll my eyes hard enough. Not only did he piss on my couch, he didn't think to change his clothes cause he needs someone to pick out his outfit for him. And the power went out just before he told me all this so now I can't wash the piss soaked clothes or couch covers and blankets. Awesome.

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Delilah's picture

Wow another toilet related thread?! :jawdrop: I would be jumping with rage over that. Peeing on the settee? Is the little horror being disciplined over it? I would make him clean it himself although I appreciate you are unable to clean jt, leaving it there will allow it to soak in. Did he tell you immediately?

notastepyet's picture

No he didn't tell immediately. Actually his older brother told him he better tell me and then of course it was "I sweated on the couch"....I said no you pissed on the couch. Did you change you clothes? "Noooo.....I don't know what I'm supposed to wear!"...oh For Fucks Sake. So I told FDH to go get him changed and I started tearing it apart. Trust me had it been my girls I would have made them clean it themselves and would have embarrassed the crap out of them. And there would have been punishment. But now it's too late for all that it is what it is and of course don't embarrass the little boys cause you'll hurt their little feelings....omg I can't wait for life to throat punch them with the reality that no one cares about your feelings, if you do something wrong there's consequences and you actually have to work to have stuff

notastepyet's picture

I just don't understand it. My bd6 hasn't pissed the bed since she was 3.....is this a boy thing that they can't handle themselves or something? Is it a boy thing to be so completely dependent on the parents? I know my brother growing up was waaaay less independent than I was....but at the same time I know BM caters to and thrives on the boys dependence on her.....cause she's super mom who does all and LIVES for her children.....there's such a difference in parenting between her and I which I let go of for the most part but I really had to bite my tongue cause at 7 you shouldn't still be pissing the bed and I would have made my girls tear apart whatever they pissed on and cleaned it themselves.....FDH is just all like "sorry honey".....I didn't see you pulling the covers off the couch cushions....but I didn't give him the opportunity to either. Gah. I'm just irritated!!!

thinkthrice's picture

I've heard that one before too!! I swear to god they must be reading from the same play book. "I sweated in the car" Uh HUH!

zerostepdrama's picture

Is he normally a bed wetter?

I will say when I was young... maybe until I was 6, maybe 7 I did wet the bed.

I would pee before bed, no drinks after a certain time, etc but I would still pee the bed. I just slept though it and woke up wet.

I remember laying in bed and praying that I would wake up and go pee because I was so ashamed and embarrassed. And I remember being so upset because my mom and SD didnt believe me (right away) anyways that I wasn't doing it on purpose.

I eventually grew out of it. The doctor said my bladder probably just hadn't caught up with my age or something like that.

But it's just a thought.....

Accordn2L's picture

OMG! Read my blog from today! I've got a nasty pisser in my house too! I will say how did those stinky pissy panties that you hid under your bed get wet? Blank stare, crickets.... I don't know??? I then say did the piss fairy come while I wasn't looking? I swear it is time to put these little fools back in diapers and sit in their own filth without ruining furniture, clothing, or our sanity!

lilym's picture

ugh. SS10 is a bedwetter, every night (SS12 was too, but was done by 10). He is "responsible" for washing his own sheets and blankets which means he does it after he's reminded several times. And pretty much never puts it into the dryer unless I say put it into the dryer. he is supposed to do it first thing in the morning but of course he never does until FDH tells him too. If he were my kid, he wouldn't have his device, be able to watch tv, etc UNTIL he had done it, that way he would remember, as well as limit his liquids after 7 pm to at least minimize the flood, but he's not my kid, so…

I hate it, I'm sensitive to smells and the entire downstairs where his bedroom is either smells like pee or vinegar from trying to get the pee smell out of his bedding.

sorry to take over with my own gripes! anyway, I feel your pain girlfriend.

Accordn2L's picture

I'm gagging a little bit! I have a rubber sheet on SD8's bed and everytime she leaves I Lysol the entire bedroom because even if she's been gone a few days I can still smell pee and it is AWFUL.

SunshineAndRainbows's picture

SS 7 1/2 here. Wets not only the bed, but throughout the day because he doesn't have sense enough/is lazy/is disgusting and doesn't give a rats ass about being in piss soaked clothes. When asked "why"? Or "Do you even care"? The response was "not a bit". And he is punished at our house for it. Has to wash out the clothes, loses toys, privileges, belongings. NOTHING is enough of a wake up call for him to make it stop!
Of course, the punishment is next to nothing at BM's house...