Heartbroken for SD and the hard road I see ahead...
There have been very few people in my life that I have put the effort in to thinking they were completely worthless and wondering why they didn't just die off. You know...only the strong survive, right?
Well, tonight SD is supposed to be back with SO and she is. However, Crazy texted SO saying she could keep her until tomorrow. SO said no, it was his time to have her. Crazy said SD had minimum days all this week and could get her, SO said no, he would pick her up from school. Then SD texts SO asking to stay at her mom's house tonight. He said no, he missed her and wanted her to be with him.
Now he may sound jealous, but recently BM and her boy toy have been arrested for the possession of meth. SO has filed for emergency custody, however, courts weren't open today, so should hear tomorrow. SO wants her out of that situation as fast as possible. Has even had the police perform a welfare check while Crazy had SD. Something SD did not tell us about when she got to SO's tonight.
While SO was out of the room, I asked SD why she didn't want to spend time with us. After several excuses, that were very lame, she finally told me that she wanted to spend time with her mom. The mom who has had her for the last week and hasn't spent any time with her. The mom who spends all her time shut up in her own bedroom with her boy toy, not spending any time with SD. Crazy actually told SD that she would spend time with her, if she stayed with her tonight. And what's worse, SD knows that her mom doesn't choose to spend time with her.
Afterwards, she started saying things like SO and I don't want her around, even though we spend more time with her then Crazy. Saying how we watch movies she can't watch, which she should be able to, now that she's 13. Unfortunately or fortunately, SO walked in at this time and the conversation ended. Otherwise, I probably would have pointed out that her and SO were together the whole time the last week she was with him. I was sick and at my own house the whole week. So where is it that he didn't want her after she turned 13? BTW, that was the only week he had her after her 13th birthday. He had a party for her, his family was there, even a sleepover with one of her friends. But hey, he doesn't spend time with her either, right?
After I left, SD fessed up to SO about the police visit and all the poison that Crazy has been feeding her. I just can't believe it. I can't understand why she listens to her mom more then her dad. You can tell Crazy has been asking all kinds of questions to try to set SO up. Oy, it's the start of the crazier craziness.
WTF kind of person does this to their daughter?!
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a crazy one. and there is
a crazy one. and there is then a handful out there
Thanks ladies. SO and on
Thanks ladies. SO and on telling her the truth. She's 13 and knows more about what's going on then she tells us. When she told SO about the Police visit she also said that her mom had told her that she would go into Foster care is SD was taken from her mom.
Someone recommended Divorce poison, I've been reading it. It's definitely helped me to understand why SD doesn't remember the good things she's done with us once she comes back from her moms.