Well I have to thank you all for all your support. I did make some headway this weekend, well really on thursday...I finally got to talk with my SO. I had made my decision, and i think i want to move on with my life.....I posted a huge entry here on thursday, but low and behold its not here(it was just an update of more BS that has been going on in my household)
Well to start the RUGRATS are GONE! and good riddens to all 3 of those tyrants!
Wednesday night and Thursday morning was 2 days of pure HELL!.....More door slamming, more lies, more manipulation (even after I took videos of my SO kids in action)
So i'll start with wednesday....coming home after work to another episode of shit everywhere, and door slamming antics! I had decided to tape my skid's in action (because my SO,their father was not home) This time i knew for sure I would had them pinned.....after finding the usual towels, underwear, pajamas, socks, hair bushes, bottles of cosmetics, and sprays all scattered on the floor, i blew my lid! (and that was just what was in my 2nd bathroom...That doesn't include the the usual shit all over my kitchen,empty wrappers, popsicle sticks,a sink full of dishes...dirty spons, forks and knives all littered on the counter, along with melted ice cream. ANd now, low and behold a new round of junk found outside on the driveway as I pulled in from work. (I guess my skid's forgot how to put their toys and belongings away, yeah right! )
SO after a night from hell i waited for my SO to return home , this time i was going to tell him to get the hell out and take his bitch daughters too ( god forgive me)
So after my SO returned home, I asked him to please take care of whatever BS he had to take care of and then set aside some time so that he and I could speak (privately)...
After an hour of him going up and down the stairs, catering to his nasty children he finally met me in our bedroom where I unloaded.....I showed him the pics, and videos of ALL the antics that goes in here ALL the times he is NOT home.( he was in shock and disbelieve when i showed him this stuff,mind you i showed him stuff prior, and he thought i doctored the pics, dont know why this time around he believed in it)
After our long convo and huge tug of war he finally agreed with me that the kids (his) MUST GO!....Now in light of not sounding harsh, as they are his kids, and if you had read my past posts he things they are princesses, but he too had no idea how I was being treated, some how i beg to differ :? )
Because it was VERY late when our convo ended, and I had to be up super early for work the next morning he WE agreed that he would take the skid's home the next morning( well to him it was HIS morning, it was afternoon to me), and that he DID!

After a long talk with the skid's by both of us,( and we came to no terems with their lies) i dont know if they will be coming back any time soon, if ever....I think he finally saw the true manipulation his children were using on him, and against me, along with the disrespect too...and they looked him straight in the face and continued to lie about me, after I had it all on video and pictures....Serves them right!!!! I wanted to tell the 3 of them to go to hell as I stood their and heard their bullshit and excuses they were trying to give their father...Made me sick...!!!

I am shocked(because i thought he would break under their pressure) that I have been skid free for 3 days now....No babysitting , no cooking and cleaning up for these brats, and shockingly the house has been in harmony, and CLEAN .....However, i still have a few bones to pick with my SO....and i still think that it is time for us to move on and apart....I gave him notice that I am unhappy(as if he didnt hear this daily), and that i think he needs to sort through his personal bullshit with his Bio kids before attempting to have a relationship with ANYONE...No women will put up with the crap I have for the last years, and I think he might get it this time....But sometimes its too little too late, and i think in this case it just might be that way for me.....
I have been doing a lot of thinking, and i do think its for the best we go our own ways...
He has been wonderful for the last 3 days, so attentive, and actually kissing my ass and being apologetic for all his kids have done to me. But in the end I don't think it will be enough. I am not looking for him to be like this....I was looking fo him to see and feel and respect me for what I have been trying to communicate to him ALL this time..... I feel traumatized. And honestly, i dont feel this will be the end with the skid's, I am still waiting for the shoe to drop, and still waiting for him to tell me that they are coming back by next weekend. His kids have a special way of guilting him into doing ANYTHING they want, even if it means sacraficing his time with me, and our relationship, at least thats the way i feel....
One day at a time I guess....But I think my decisions have been made, and now i just have to stick to it.....I will update again soon...Hope every one is having a happy & healthy , festive 4th!