although he is a little older than most kids when they experience that. Does he have other symptoms of anxiety? Sounds like he may be better of with you and DH.
I know he would be better off with us and SS wants to be with us. Everytime we get ready to set a court date he chages his mind and wants things to stay the way they are. He has told us his mom cries and makes him feel back for wanting to live with his daddy. So at this point we are just waiting until he is more mature and get serous. We can't afford to keep going back to court.
As the curtain closes on all I have attempted to do and be; I want to look into your eyes and see that I mattered. Not what I looked like. Not what I did or how much money I made. Not even how talented I was. I want to look into the teary eyes of someone
could get BM to go to counseling? Any good counselor will make sure BM understands exactly what she is doing to that child and will put that child before anything else. If it were my husband and this were my stepchild I would insist that he tell BM she will go to counseling or risk losing that child. BM is majorly screwing him up for life. He's likely to develop a full blown anxiety problem.
my skid's BM is the same way.... what I don't get is why do they do this to their own kids? Why make them suffer? Why turn them into co-dependent little freaks?
BM has been telling my 7-year-old SD that she can't wear my body mist because her skin is "too sensitive and fragile". She has the poor kid believing that if she takes a bath at our house shes going to break out in a rash, more specifically a "yeast infection".
So now this little girl is starting to think bizzare things and act strangly, (just like BM).
What I cannot for the life of me understand is WHY she is doing this to her own child.
I will never understand why BM's try and cause they children harm.
As the curtain closes on all I have attempted to do and be; I want to look into your eyes and see that I mattered. Not what I looked like. Not what I did or how much money I made. Not even how talented I was. I want to look into the teary eyes of someone
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Sounds like separation anxiety
although he is a little older than most kids when they experience that. Does he have other symptoms of anxiety? Sounds like he may be better of with you and DH.
I know he would be better
I know he would be better off with us and SS wants to be with us. Everytime we get ready to set a court date he chages his mind and wants things to stay the way they are. He has told us his mom cries and makes him feel back for wanting to live with his daddy. So at this point we are just waiting until he is more mature and get serous. We can't afford to keep going back to court.
As the curtain closes on all I have attempted to do and be; I want to look into your eyes and see that I mattered. Not what I looked like. Not what I did or how much money I made. Not even how talented I was. I want to look into the teary eyes of someone
Is it possible that DH
could get BM to go to counseling? Any good counselor will make sure BM understands exactly what she is doing to that child and will put that child before anything else. If it were my husband and this were my stepchild I would insist that he tell BM she will go to counseling or risk losing that child. BM is majorly screwing him up for life. He's likely to develop a full blown anxiety problem.
This sounds familiar,
my skid's BM is the same way.... what I don't get is why do they do this to their own kids? Why make them suffer? Why turn them into co-dependent little freaks?
BM has been telling my 7-year-old SD that she can't wear my body mist because her skin is "too sensitive and fragile". She has the poor kid believing that if she takes a bath at our house shes going to break out in a rash, more specifically a "yeast infection".
So now this little girl is starting to think bizzare things and act strangly, (just like BM).
What I cannot for the life of me understand is WHY she is doing this to her own child.
I will never understand why
I will never understand why BM's try and cause they children harm.
As the curtain closes on all I have attempted to do and be; I want to look into your eyes and see that I mattered. Not what I looked like. Not what I did or how much money I made. Not even how talented I was. I want to look into the teary eyes of someone
Because
they are control freaks and crazy people who really think their distorted sense of reality is right.