thinking hard
Thinking about sueing my husband's ex wife for harrasement and emotional distress... he has been to court 4 times in one year because the female creature wants more money. He pays $304 every 2 weeks but that not enough for an 18 year old who is working and spending his moneis on tatoos and his girlfriend...on top of that she has him going to 42 thousand dollar college and his dad didnt have any input.
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In most places, child support
In most places, child support ends at 18. You say your stepson is 18. Why is DH still giving her money?
Thats the law in the state
Thats the law in the state that they live in. He can pay support up until hes 26 and in school.
Wow, that is crazy. I've
Wow, that is crazy. I've never heard of CS for a 26-year-old. If I were the 18+ stepkid I'd feel very weird about that and would be asking my BM for the money so I could use it for my own place, school, car, etc. so my dad would know that the money is being put to good use.
MOVE! Child support is based
MOVE! Child support is based where the NCP lives... Let me guess Jersey?
Jersey it is...you must live
Jersey it is...you must live in Jersey
No it is based on where the
No it is based on where the cp and child lives and as of now ss is residing in Pa for school.
I wish she can be taken out
I wish she can be taken out of the picture and dh and the ss cn deal with one another. I have two children by dh and the judge dont want to take my children into consideration in fact he wants my income so bm can get more money...the ss can fix this but he doesn want to hurt his moms...yet instill dh gets hurt all the time.
I've NEVER heard of a judge
I've NEVER heard of a judge wanting the NCP's SO's income for CS.
yes they ask because they
yes they ask because they said we are unit so our household income is consider as one.
They asked for YOUR income
They asked for YOUR income too?? We live in NJ, and SD19 also goes to college in PA where tuition is $43000 per year. They just went to court last January to have everything revised, and DH still pays $452 per month in CS and 65% of the tuition, but my income was never asked for thank goodness. I probably would have lost complete control and attacked BM if that had happened! Like you, they didn't allow DH to have any say in the school SD19 goes to. I'm just praying it all ends when she's 22 because graduate school was never mentioned in the divorce decree or mentioned in the recent modification, nor has SD19 mentioned she ever intended to go to grad school. Even though DH would feel obligated to pay at least half her tuition even if it wasn't court ordered, I would LOVE to go to the ACLU or something to fight why divorced parents are required to pay for college while married parents are not. It's completely discriminatory!
WOW,, I better quit bitching
WOW,, I better quit bitching about our laws in MN,, My income does NOT play a factor in CS, his ends at 18,and they go by MN law because that is where he was born, my SS now lives in TN,and they had to file a parenting plan which took place in TN because thats where he lives now, it took us a few years to get our crap figured out,but our lawyer stood firm that my husband was treated un fairly,and they actually changed his CS order and awarded us $1800,00 back.
Thats great!!! His lawyer has
Thats great!!! His lawyer has been trying to prove the same thing but we believe the judge knows the bm or her current boyfriend; because he is in law enforcement and the judge isnt trying to hear anything that the lawyer or my husband is trying to say.
See if you can get another
See if you can get another Judge. There is more than one Judge out there. Even if you have to get one from a different county, most Judges can travel all around the state.
My in-laws worked for the county that the original order was in and the Judge recused (sp) himself because he was friends with the in-laws. Then we got a Judge from the whole other side of the state, and he still knew the in-laws, but wasn't as close of friends as the other Judge.
Yes some friends of mine had
Yes some friends of mine had to pay until their skid was out of college!!! That is so ridiculous!
Ours quit high school 2 months ago and we pay child support of 1200 a month so he can screw around with his friends and smoke weed. He's been kicked out of BMs house 3 times this year, was here 2 months, and that is what you call a waste of MONEY!
Here's some more cash BM - I hope you choke on it!
In some states cs can
In some states cs can continue as long as child is living with bm and going to college AND living with parent...damn i would soo fight that! come live with me instead, you're grown, let bm pay cs for a while......