SS will start residing with us when school is out in early June.
BM wanted the paper work to read "shared parenting" Our attorney said she's just trying to save face, so let her word it however she wants,she knows and we know what it is. The order still states that father is the custodial residential parent and that is in the best interest of the child all through the paperwork. BM will also have to make the 1.5hr. drive to pick him up on her weekends, we know this will soon stop, she always hated even coming to the halfway point on Sundays.. DH also gets SS every year for tax exemption.
I am pleased. Thank you all for your support!