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PAS- Parental Alienation Syndrome OR Something else..

mrsparks's picture

Ok.. Explain this to me..
BM will allow us to retrieve SS5 every weekend, every holiday, every long weekend and winter break etc.

She does not try to keep DH from SS in that way, becase she LOVES to get rid of the child every single chance she gets, but.. She will play games and not let SS talk with Dad on the phone when he is back with her during the week or when DH texts her to have SS call him, she never does etc. She tells the teachers at school that they are not to discuss SS's issues with DH and really has a problem with anyone giving DH any information concerning SS.I know most of it's a control thing but isn't that a form of alienation?

Your thoughts?

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Rags's picture

Yep, it is PAS or DRMMS. Check out the article through this link. It is in there.

http://www.fact.on.ca/Info/pas/turkat95.htm

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mrsparks's picture

"I can tell you the aftermath, after many years of PAS and the kids grow up
they become very HIGH MAINTENANCE people who
have very high expectations, often not even being able to come anywhere near what they expect of others... and
they tend to treat others badly, very manipulitive, always want to play head games"

This is the part I see the most, she neglects the child and doesn't care for him, but plays these pretend head games with DH and creates the elusion that she is actually doing right by SS.
She uses SS as a pawn he's a CS check to her.