EFF ME
So SS8 didn't go to school today because he was vomitting all last night, so BM sent him to his Grandparents for the day (it is her scheduled 2 weeks with him).....but just a minute ago I get a phone call at work from DH saying that he is picking him up on the way home from work as he is staying the night at our house......I am so f***ing pissed off I am literally shaking!!! Why do I have to deal with him when he is sick!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He better be f***ing better to go to school tomorrow, because there is no way in hell I am bringing him to work with me if he is still sick (normally when my DD14's have a day off, I let them come to work with me, we have an office with a TV etc)......
I don't know who I'm more pissed off at......DH for thinking it's ok that we always pick up the slack for BM or BM for thinking it's ok to palm him off all the god damn time when it's her week with him!!!!!!!
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I don't understand either why
I don't understand either why he is being shipped from place to place....as a Mum I don't get how she (BM) always picks the easiest option for her but then tries to justify it by saying "oh well if he wants to stay with you"..... I am sooooo cranky!
So just popped the top of a bottle of wine, and enjoying the next half hour of peace before he gets here!!
Because she has people around
Because she has people around her that pick up her slack!!! And no one (including DH) has the balls to call her out on her crap! The last couple of times he's been sick, he's ended up here!
I hear ya, as long as people
I hear ya, as long as people keep bailing these useless BM's out, they will keep on becoming MORE useless. And then they run the whole show, and us SM's get dumped on and resentful because of the route this whole situation has taken.
It just plain sucks.
Wow sounds like you are
Wow sounds like you are British version of our family.
No, not going to work with
No, not going to work with me, thank goodness! He's still sick, so DH has dropped him off to the Grandparents house again as per BM's wishes!! DH doesn't understand why as a mother I get so cranky!! I never expect others to look after my girls when they are sick....as a Mum that is my responsiblity!!