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luckykell's picture

Continuation of my previous blog. Tonight was supposed to be a scheduled night for my BF and I, well BM had sent a message saying she'd just keep Scooty tonight. After trying to contact her this morning with no luck, BF gets a text from her asking if we'd like to meet her and her new BF at Grey Snail to talk about custody. Here's my problems with this:

#1: why did she insist on keeping Scooty from us when she's not even planning on staying home?!
#2: Grey Snail is a bar/club her in Tulsa, completely inappropriate location to discuss child custody arrangements. (And hello, it's Friday night, it's gonna be packed!!)
#3: since when is going out and partying more important than discussing your daughter's future?!

This woman is driving me and my BF out of our minds!! My brain cannot honestly process this, it is wrong on so many levels. My BF texted BM back saying we will speak next week at a more appropriate location and that we will be picking Scooty up from her grandmothers house after work tonight. She must have realized we were "calling her out" because she didn't fight us. Ugh!! Some people!!

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Stick's picture

BM sounds completely self centered and clueless. Like you aren't supposed to notice that she was keeping Scooty ...and oh yea! going out too. Uhhh Duh.

She's whacked. I know I've been pushing it a lot lately, but her behavior reminds me so much of BM over here that I think you should look at my blog about narcissistic parents and see if it fits her.