In reality I'm noticed as a step mom but I shouldn't be a step mom and I will never ever act like a mom for my boyfriend's kid. He's a 12 year old boy but yet acts like a selfless teenager and sometimes acts like he's 5 years old. He doesn't know how to do anything like literally anything. He doesn't know how to hang up clothes, tie his shoes, take his own shower, change for himself, open a simple can of coke... You basically get the point. All he does know is to play Xbox all day, stay up all night, sleep all day, scream, complaim, and eat. I honestly think his dad doesn't even discipline him right. The way I look at it, it honestly seems like his son is in charge. He treats his dad with a bit of tiniest respect. He doesn't listen to him, call him names, like baldy, n word (my boyfriend is white btw), and just continues to swear at him. And the dad, all he does is just sit there and take it. I remember back then whenever a kid did those type of things we would get our asses beat. His dad whoops him with a belt sometimesbut his son continues to do the same shit. I honestly think at this time of age that's when a kid should be learning about Independence but unfortunately he's a daddy's boy. 

Now the reason I'm blogging about this is because today I caught his son having a chat with his sister. She's a 25 year old girl, that sleeps all day everyday. She does absolutely nothing. She doesn't clean, cool, work, or go to school. Now the only reason she doesn't work because supposedly her vision isn't the best and gets money from the IRS, which I think is bullcrap. The reason why I say that is because she takes off like nothing, with her friends and go out partying every weekend. Besides the point throughout the chat, I caught his son and the daughter talking bad about me. Now, keep this in mind, I've talked about them before and they've heard me but I didn't care, and that's because I'm not a coward or two faced like them. They also act they're tough but they're not, and they got big mouths that don't shut up. I brought that up because in the chat they were constantly saying I'm ugly, fat, stupid, annoying, and jealous. Ever since I've first got her just to live with my boyfriend I would've never thought his kids would be so disrespectful but living here for almost 2 years his son attitude and his daughter's big mouth is just getting worse. Sometimes I just feel like snapping at them but unfortunately I would seem like I'm the bad person and they would put all the blame on me when I've never ever done anything to them! The only times I talk about them is whenever they get under my nerves. I just wish they would talk all shit to that my face and just tell them off. Whenever I do complain to my boyfriend about them he does take care of it but after a few days it goes back to the same shit, it's just basically rinse and repeat everyday!