Hello fellow step parents ive Busy and I havnt Really had anything Happen until todayI was cooking breakfast this morning when I noticed my boyfriends phone went off with a text scrolling across the top so I can read it it was in plain sight and I wasn't trying to pry but it read from baby momma are you going to get married? I immediately I told him that your baby mama wants to know if we are getting married so he got up quickly and he looked at the text I stared at him until I got an answer I already know the answer but I wanted to know what his answer was he said eventually we will get married I said I know that I just want to know what you're going to tell her this is not the first time that she has asked this in a text I think she definitely needs to get a life and I see the immaturity in her nothing shocks me with her but this is ridiculous we have been together two years and I'm not going anywhere weather I marry him or not is not for any of her business and this is what I told my boyfriend he agrees he says he doesn't text anything back when she asked questions like that I think he does I told him half joking to tell her yes we're getting married and you're invited hahaha I said to tell her to mind her own damn business but he says that would actually look worse the other than ignoring her texts I don't know what to do I don't want to Facebook message her I don't want to cause any problems until now she hasn't really given me a reason to bother her if she thinks that I'm not reading his text she's crazy actually I only see them once in a great while because I trust my boyfriend I just don't trust her she has a two year old baby and a new man and apparently a new ring on your finger but why is me and my boyfriends marriages such a problem for her I told my boyfriend that she needs to realize that I'm not going anywhere married or not if she think that is a finalization of our relationship together then she's seriously screwed in her head a lot of people I know are married for years and years or there together for years and years either way they're in love so what do I do how do I handle this do I need to say anything else I don't know I don't want to be I mean b**** but I don't want to be taken for granted that I don't have a voice please help thank you