Clingy Whiny Never Satisfied Disney Dad
Just as I was about to reward him for being peaceful and respectful.....
He got mad when he walked in and heard me making plans to attend a event with my friends.
To be honest he asked about us going together but I figured we be broken up by then, I was tired of hearing him talking about how he paying for his degenerate ex wife's car/extra child support/etc (so I feel guilty if I expect him to pay on dates and wonder if he can afford it so I try not to go out with him too often because of this), and I wanted to have freedom to hang with my friends every couple of months.
And then he started back in the nagging cycle of "you never spend enough time with me" "you don't have enough sex with me" "I'm tired of being out on the back burner"
As much as I complain here I actually do those things at least once a week when he's acting normal and sometimes when he's whiny nagging just to get him off my back
But I find it disrespectful to say to someone you're not sexing enough especially considering he bring so much extra work, drama, struggle to my life.
Like if you want me to do more for you then what more are you going to do for me?
Anyways the same exact nagging circular argument every week like clockwork.
I have constantly told him, while he's not the type of guy I'd typically date (I prefer men who have the means and can lovingly provide) I was thankful when he did his best with what he had and never demanded more considering jis
Yet he demands more and more out of me and is rarely appreciative anymore.
Somehow we came to the (this time mutual) conclusion again to separate and he put a timeframe of 1 month.
I honestly think him realizing I was ready to leave him is activating his narcissistic tendencies (be fake nice so he could end it so his fragile ego remains intact). Wtf ever! Idgaf who ends it.
Ironically he said i could stay (probably some trick to keep tabs or whatever) which would be easier for me financially but I want a better environment and new start.
I just hope he doesn't act like the bitch I've seen him to be these next few days and some windfall of money lands in my lap