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What would you do - attending DH Nephew Graduation Party if SS attends

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Submitted by karenemoy on Mon, 06/06/2011 - 1:27pm

What would you do - SS21 is a drug addict, used me for money and now after spending 1 year in several rehabs he is moving back near us and enabling BM footing all the bills. DH has already told his son we are not paying any more - we have paid for a lot of rehab, cars, school - we are done.

I was used and manipulated for money. I cannot see the kid and he is not allowed in our house.

My SIL is having a party for her son who is graduating HS. I just cannot go if SS21 is there - I am afraid of him he gives me the creeps and he still a big MOOCH.

His FB page has his first name as Columbine - does he think that is funny?

I am afraid I am just going to have to tell my SIL that I will not go. I get physically sick of the idea of having to see him.

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Submitted by MamaBecky on Mon, 06/06/2011 - 1:49pm

If you feel that strongly disturbed by the idea of being in the same place as your SS then you should not go. Your SIL should understand especially if she is familiar with what you have been through. Send a card and nice gift...maybe give the nephew a congratulatory phone call or text and dont worry about it beyond that.