When it's just SO, myself, and our toddler, I am happy. We are happy.
But as soon as Ss17 and SS15 come in the door (about 100 times a day, since they come and go as they please. Any time of day or night) my heart drops, my stomach is in knots and I turn into a major bitch.
Speaking of coming and going, stupid BM had the boys out till 11 pm on a school night, we had no idea where they were since she is only supposed to have them every other weekend. While they were gone, SO and I emptied out nasty closet, drawers, under bed. I had just military style cleaned their room the week before. Well, they get home, and go their room. They turn the lights a minute later. I finish reading, lock up the house and go to bed. 6am, I look in their room to make sure they are up for school. They are not there. They had called their mom, told her I had trashed their room, and to come get them.they then jumped out of their window and she picked them up down the street.SO is furious and calls her.she then tells him that she told SS15 to call his dad and let him know! SERIOUSLY? he barely remembers to wipe his butt! He tells her that she is the adult and it s her job.
She still picks them up whenever they order her to.and still never tells my SO.i can't wait till he takess her sorry ass to court for the 13 years of CS she oweshim. And once she starts paying, she can take her horrible kids back as receipt of payment