I think it's safe to say a lot of us have seen the same situations played out by some of these HCBMs so many times that "playbook" is an accurate description of the shenanigans.
I'm really frustrated with how much financial havoc these people can cause.
Even with a CO and many DHs paying the CS on time without fail, the premiums for insurance, the out of pocket %'s it is never enough.
Besides the basic level playbook of glasses, contacts, braces...what else should I expect? I would normally fear some sort of therapy but BM worries too much about vapid shallow $hit and not core real $hit and therefore her kid needing therapy would never fly...it doesn't fit the picture perfect painting she likes to champion.
So hit me with what else I should expect. One boy child 15 one girl child 12.