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hated_witch's picture

Submitted by hated_witch on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:25am

Hi everyone. I have been lurking around here for a little while. It is nice to know that there are some people in the same place as me in dealing with a spitefull BM. By the way I love that she is called BM because that in my eyes is a bowel movement and very fitting.

BG: We have been trying for years to get my ss out of her house and in with us. Well this past few months we have learned that there are a lot of things going on at the house he lives in that we actually stand a chance of getting him (his step dad is abusive to his mom and her daughters and they were stupid enought to admit it to DHS). So now we are waiting on the report from DHS to file.

I know that I am going to need some support!! lol I hope that I am welcome here. Oh, and I am a bio-mom too.

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stormabruin's picture

Submitted by stormabruin on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:27am

Bio-mom or Step, you are absolutely welcome! There are many here who are both. Smile

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Submitted by Zoie on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:34am

Welcome aboard...

I find this site very helpful, the advice given is honest and direct and best of all it's given by people with experience and that is priceless. I'm a SM and at times really in need of this site be it to vent or get some advice...welcome and good luck with trying to get your SS to live with you..keep us posted..

Z Smile

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Submitted by hated_witch on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:41am

Thanks guys! Our bowel movement likes to stalk me on the internet so I have always been timid on posting anything. She has pretened to be one of my DH's old highschool friends on facebook (the real guy didn't have a facebook) and stole pictures and what not. She is pure evil. }:)

Everytime we have taken her to court she has won. We think that she has someone at the court house wrapped around her finger. She always pulls the "crying" deal. (gag) I like to call her bluff so now she refuses to let me in the court room. So now that we know that there is abuse going on in that house maybe we can finally once and for all get him out. We need lots of luck.

Zoie's picture

Submitted by Zoie on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:44am

I am dealing with a very sick and evil BM as well so I feel your pain... to a great 2011...cheers.....

Z Dirol

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Submitted by Zoie on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 12:50pm

Wow didn't know that crayon...thanks for the heads up on this.. It's bad enough to have to deal with this with BM but I didn't realize we had posers on here..

Z Smile

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Submitted by lifeisshort on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 7:05pm

I find it suspicious when someone immediate invalidates others. It always seems to me that a person like that has an agenda...

Personally, I don't like to make others feel "less-than." I just offer what works for me or what my experiences in life have been, and sometimes my opinion (which everyone is entitled to), and let others take from that what they will. Just because one member may have a different family dynamic than another does not invalidate their merit.
JMHO.

Try not to have preconceived ideas, just take stuff as it comes and leave the rest! Welcome!

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Submitted by WickednNasty on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:40am

Hey from one Witch (you may change my B to a W if you wish) to another, park your Broom over there, pull up a chair, Welcome! My head sometimes spins hearing the BM stories here too. I often think of the BM thing too. My DH refers to her as Vader as in Darth Vader......grrhhhhh.

Either way I ride a super charged Turbo Broom at times so your welcome to park your broom next to mine.

Welcome and good luck!

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Submitted by hated_witch on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:44am

Thanks!! Yeah we call ours "Satan". When the house phone rings my husband will say "Is that you Satan?" Of course he never says it where any of the children can hear him but it is quite funny. I would be happy to park my broom next to yours! Maybe one day I can upgrade to a super charged broom too! lol

Thanks for the warm welcome!

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Submitted by dragonfly5 on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:48am

Broom, super charged broom...I need one.

Hated witch you are welcomed here. The "evils" must stick together.

The BM we deal with would blow your mind. I would put our insane stories up against anyones.

Join the insanity and know you have kindred "spirit's" here.

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Submitted by hbell0428 on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:54am

Welcome!! Glad you found this site; it has helped me through a lot and given me my backbone!! LOL Some advice is blunt (you'll see) but I take it all; because sometimes things are said that you didn't WANT to hear - but it helps.......

Lots of Luck to you

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Submitted by alwaysanxious on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 10:58am

Welcome!

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Submitted by Frustrated New Wife on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 11:43am

Welcome!

Jsmom's picture

Submitted by Jsmom on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 11:56am

Welcome to the site. It is a great outlet to stop us from going off on these SK's. My DH only calls BM the Bitch. But, he has a ring tone that is some sone saying shes a Bitch. Hysterical and no one really knows that is her ring tone.

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Submitted by bruisedpeach on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 3:01pm

i am also new..well..newish, and u know wht this place has given me?? piece of effing mind.

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Submitted by hated_witch on Tue, 01/04/2011 - 6:52pm

It looks like I will fit right in here. I will let you all know what the attorney says tomorrow (I called our old attorney) if he thinks we can stand a chance. Then we wait for that DHS report. Ugh. You know if we do ONE thing wrong we get drug thru the ringers but BM's can act like COMPLETE idiots and it is ok. I thank the lord that I get along with my bio-son's step mom, now if only BM could get her head out of her fat ass we would be ok.