Don’t know what to do
It’s been awhile since I have been in here. My husband and I offered his daughter and husband and 3 grandkids a place to stay with us since 8/3! They lost the home they were renting and even though in the past there have been issues I thought we can do this! Okay last night my daughter who is 22 and was living with boyfriend came home crying and needs to come back! So her husband and her are having marital problems and due to the fact he cannot live her without his son having a room - I made the mistake of saying his son would give up room! He is here every other weekend and thursdays! So he said he is moving out, . In the mean time stepdaughter and daughter got into a physical fight, my daughter went to tell her okay we got it figured out I am just gonna sleep on the couch! Well stepdaughter started screaming at her told her to go up stairs with some bleeps in there! So my daughter came upstairs stepdaughter followed I was on the phone with my daughter she slapped phone out of my daughters hand started pushing and punching her, my daughter took her down held her arms and said are you done hitting me! Mean while I am at work I leave come home I went down and asked what the heck was going on, she started screaming at me she hates me I have never done anything for her I am not her family! Screaming and telling my daughter this isn’t her house she has lived here longer mind you we have been here 15 years! I said stop we can talk like adults she was shoving me I grabbed her and said let’s talk about this, nope she went out called someone said I was grabbing her by her neck and all this crap! Called cops had 4 cops here they did nothing and left! She told me and my daughter we need to grow up! I have been through this with her before! Last week she was mad at her husband and physically attacked him, she said he was lying she did nothing- mind you she never does anything wrong. Look I know neither of them were right but my daughter defended herself and has bruises on her to prove this. My husband is sad, I am at a loss - I feel anger and sadness! I have done so much for this girl since she was 12 and opened my heart time and time again! I honestly don’t want her here - and just need some prayers because I don’t wanna live with her! I love my grandkids and son in law and I do love her but can’t do this! It’s mentally exhausting!