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Submitted by EFlores90 on Mon, 03/16/2015 - 9:42pm

so stupid BM decides to put the spoiled brat in soccer this year! Of course dad is gonna have to take him and pick him up and buy all his crap! and of course practice is like 45 min away from dad and half that from her house! I am being a total jerk but jeez! I can't stand that whore or the kid! HE needs discipline! Am I also a jerk for not wanting to go watch the kid practice? Am I required to watch practice and games? And of course w will prob. the whore at the games to top it off.

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Submitted by EFlores90 on Mon, 03/16/2015 - 9:48pm

Because the SS is ALWAYS at my boyfriends house or my boyfriends parents house. Like for the whole week! She never has him! She knows how far boyfriends parents live and how far my boyfriend lives from the kids school and from her house and she still refuses to help! Im not gonna go to the practices =/

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Submitted by EFlores90 on Mon, 03/16/2015 - 9:55pm

Well my boyfriend feels as though he needs to buy him everything like shoes/clothes/school stuff/ he takes him to get his haircuts because she does not charge him child support. We will prob. keep him anyway because he's always with my BF or his parents. I feel horrible but I don't have kids! I love the kid but I don't want to be "soccer mommy" its not me? I don't have that full on motherly instinct for him yet

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Submitted by EFlores90 on Mon, 03/16/2015 - 10:00pm

Thank you! I just recently started telling him to "be careful" " don't do that" and suggesting things to dad like um maybe he shouldn't be up until 1030 on a weeknight or up until 1 on weekends! ( he's 8 )

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Submitted by EFlores90 on Mon, 03/16/2015 - 10:01pm

Its like he's afraid to tell her no! it was her decision to put him in a private school! and her choice to split the cost each month!

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Tue, 03/17/2015 - 6:29am

He doesn't paid CS and your mad that he is buying him stuff for soccer, school clothes, etc? Do you expect BM to pay for all of those things? Shouldnt your DH pay for half?

Not sure why you feel like you have to go to the games and practices. Just say no. Not your kid.

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Submitted by EFlores90 on Tue, 03/17/2015 - 6:00pm

Of course BM should have help Im just annoyed she is such an idiot and inconsiderate when making decisions about the kid