So we finally got the skids this weekend after being refused to see them for three weekends. This is only because BM2 had plans and so we were convenient baby sitters. So, SD7 gets in the truck with FDH and they start heading to our house and she says "Daddy, I want to share my feelings with you". So of course FDH says go ahead, you can do it right now. She told him that Mommy has been showing her text msgs between her and him and that it hurts her feelings when he yells at her Mommy, and that he called them 'those kids' (he says he can't figure out what she's talking about there, he even went back and checked his texts and he never said that). And she also told him that Mommy had told her that FDH and I didn't want her and her brother around and that is why they hadn't seen us for a month. :jawdrop:

Ok, so I know that I shouldn't be shocked. But two years ago I would have told you BM2 was the easy one to deal with (oh how things have changed!), and she is also the one that has divorced parents and told my FDH when they were together how horrible it was for her when her parents said bad things about eachother because it confused her and upset her. Well, what do you think you are doing to your kid then!?

I feel really bad for SD7, she seems really confused. Of course we are trying to reassure her, but I feel like it's not going to do much good. A day and a half out of one month of us saying we want her here, against an entire month of what her mother is saying to her doesn't mean anything.