To some this may sound petty but it is really bothering me. DH has been in a pissy mood since we moved several hundred miles away from SD27 a few months ago. SD27 had her children taken away by CPS a few weeks ago. She sent DH a text saying she got custody again which is a complete lie. However, as usual he believes her. DH sends SD several texts every day saying "I love you" "I miss you" etc. Yes its not bad for a parent to tel these things to their children. However, he never mentions or asks about the grandcchildren and I think sending several of these messages every day is beyond normal. The clincher for me was yesterday. He came home in a really crabby mood. He went to bed early having very little to do with me at all. I looked at his messages. Sure enough he started at 6:30 am by sending DH a text of I love you. I got one text from him yesterday of I love you several hours later and I dang sure didn't hear it from him when he left. Seems like SD27 is his first thought and first priority. IMO its like he is in love with her.