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Doesnteatcrow's picture

My ss12 is wheelchair bound with an autism dx. They took away the autism dx and told us he was "retarded" not on the spectrum right before Xmas. Hello, maybe he is not autistic but they told us we need to treat him like a 6 year old with anxiety issues? So we can put him on a wait list to put him in "play therapy" with 6 year olds 25 miles away in a major metro area away?

Please note when we heard this BM was not there, she was on the phone. I was there and I went off six ways to Friday. This child has so many issues physically you can cry. He has had his spinal cord cut to keep his heart and lungs working ( July 2010).Dear ss12 also had to have his entire plumbing rebuilt the Tuesday after easter 2012. That was another 15 hours of surgery, it w amazing... They took his appendix and rebuilt it into 2 stomas. One for this bladder and one for his bowels ( to cath and do the enemas). So the surgeons did that and well his bladder started spasming and they had to take part of his colon and build his new bladder.

His mom cashes the checks but she offers nothing but putting him in front of the tv. Truly, I know this because the nurses that have been fired from her house tell us. We have been through 9 or 10 surgeries ( I loose count) 32 days in patient in 2 years. I have carried the insurance fir a year and also got medicaid for him or we would be broke. Hello bitch BM if you would have taken prenatals it might have been easier!

And I love all of my kids dss12, dss9 and my bio son 22 months today. Only reason I know bio son is 22 is because my awesome ss 9 remembers! My stepsons love me and I love them so much it is sick!

Stepson 9 to the same idiot BM... She took prenatals with him... Forgot his his lunch today. I took it to him and put a note in his bag that said forget your homework you fail, forget your lunch you fail your stomach. He came home and knocked on my door and said "thanks for not letting me fail my stomach"! And for that I am in love!!!

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herewegoagain's picture

Your husband needs to get custody of this poor child and take away the checks fromthe bm in court!!! Wth is HE waiting for???

Doesnteatcrow's picture

Wow, it was 2011 Easter and I am just tired. I read everyones blogs and love them - they make me feel normal! But, what I am living isn't normal for typical people.

So the sybercrap blogs made me laugh! As if the womb donor we pay every month under Ohio law was interested enough to blog? That would straight up cut into her time... If she was interested in being s parent she would try to be one!!!

Doesnteatcrow's picture

Yes, he has spina bifida... And yes - they used the word "retarded" said he was what they previously would have called retarded! His BM is a special needs teacher to boot. My husband had to pay her alimony so she decided to do that so she would only have to work 180 days at 7 hours days. She has 2 other degrees where she could make 3 times as much but then she wouldn't get to play my life sucks because I have a special needs kid.