Well, That Ought to Change Things, X
DH caved.
He totally caved.
He told SD14 he'd help drive her to get to the other high school. That she still wants to be at our house during the week but only if "no one else is here." WTF does that mean?
No discussion of room cleaning, anything.
I'm done, so freaking disengaged from that situation it'll make his head spin. No help from me at all. No covering any expenses like I sometimes help him with (he pays me back but no more Cover Credit).
I'll take control of all cleaning rules, anything left out anywhere is GONE.
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I just poured a glass of wine
I just poured a glass of wine and salute you. I am so sorry, that is a train-wreck letting the child run the adult. Sorry you're in their path if destruction.
....she wants to be at your
....she wants to be at your house during the week.... he'll help with transportation....
Help? Who is he "helping" with transportation? Who is doing the transportation the rest of the time from your house?
She has school bus service
She has school bus service now, so no one has to drive much. And BM arranges pick up on her end when they go to her home.
Update: well things are in
Update: well things are in flux! DH is stepping up after time to think. Discussion with BM took place. Although I think SD14 will change schools the logistics are underway. Will do an update when I can.
And yes I was 'round about' asked if I could take her part way in with me and my answer was a clear N.O.
only if "no one else is here."
May I assume this means YOU? If that's the case, it is NOT acceptable. What a crock.