SD13 had a big event tonight. DH paid for her classes (not cheap!) and I helped arrange things and drive her to/from part of the time.
And of couse BM was there. And of course SD gave us the shaft. And told BM in front of everyone that she wanted to go home with her. Then broke down in tears in our car. Didn't say a word to us when we got home, still crying, said she was tired and going to bed. Got on the phone with her mom immediately. Like we were not in existence.
DH is on the phone with BM now, telling her to please do not speak with SD on his time unless it's a quick call, he's done. BM said "you cant tell me I can't call my daughter..." Classic PAS! DH sees it niw at least. He's furious and is going to have a serious convo about respect and graciously appreciating people tomorrow morning.
Meanwhile I told DH I am done driving unless SD genuinely thanks me. She can kiss my help goodbye. DH totally understood.
Any bets that she's going to be out of the home by end of next year like her sister?