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I messaged BM2 again

Cooooookies's picture

This whole thing with the damn smartphone that she never should've bought him has caused a sh*t storm.  She was, once again, rage texting DH.  Of course it twists around to "you and your wife" (add contempt and hissing to the your wife bit) keep going through his phone not letting him have privacy.  Well YES...BECAUSE HE KEEPS WATCHING PORN!!!  So I wake up this morning to BM2 again telling SS16 that he should change all the passcodes on his devices and all the passwords on his accounts.  Send them all to her as Cookies shouldn't be going through your stuff as our chats should be private.  DING DING there's her real concern....sending messages to him and filling his head with PAS stuff in privacy.

So, that's it, I've had enough.  Not waiting another 7.5 years to contact her on this one.  I sent her a nice whatsapp message that begins: 'Do you realize no one would know about SS's porn addiction if I didn't go through his devices?  DH simply just does not understand technology and wouldn't know how to search history, etc.'  At the end I wrote 'I am not the enemy BM2 First Name, I simply only do what is best and safe for SS.'

So she writes back that she wasn't aware of the strangers trying to contact SS on facebook and PS4, she thought it was only the porn.  I'm thinking OK but you still know about the porn.  So why would you still tell your child to lock all his devices??!  Oh, because you're getting salty about getting called out on all the games you play.

Honestly she makes SS twice the hard work by just dealing with her.  Good job being more worried about wanting to send him digging messages against us instead of being concerned about his porn addiction.  MOTY.

Guaranteed she'll calm down now, just like when I contacted her in March telling her to cut the crap.  Cheese and flipping rice.

 

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Exjuliemccoy's picture

It's so nice to see that after years of this woman being a thorn in your side, you now treat her matter of factly like the hemorrhoid she is. She doesn't have any power anymore or cast a pall over your life because you've confronted her and put her in her place. 

It must bother her hugely that you're the queen of the castle and aren't afraid to call her out on her carp.

Cooooookies's picture

Yes, the fact that I know what she's up to and call her out really frosts her backside.  Well stop being a thirsty little nut job and we'd all get along. Smile

justmakingthebest's picture

I just can't get over the whole "it's just porn" mindset!!! Does she really think that a porn addicition as a young teen will set him up for healthy sexual relationships in the future? Does she think that porn is not degrading to women? Does she SERIOUSLY think that this isn't a problem??

Porn all over the internet is not the same as it was when we were younger and a boy found his dad's playboy magizine. There is some seriously disgusting stuff out there. When my ex SS was 6, he used my ipad once, and me not thinking about parental controls that he had on his little tablet, found some of the most disgusting and vile things I have ever seen and that was in less than 5 minutes because he typed in Boobies. I can't imagine what someone who knew what they were looking for could find!

Cooooookies's picture

He is literally watching women getting uhhhh smashed via their backside.  I have had talks with him explaining that this isn't what sex really is and if he really tried to do what's in these videos he'd probably end up in jail.  You need to respect a woman and having sex is gentle and loving (not going into other things lol)

So yes he's watching all this twisted shizz and BM2 is like "cHaNgE aLl YoUr PaSsCoDeS yOu NeEd PrIvAcY"

NO he needs therapy and guidance you idiot!

Chmmy's picture

Hi cookies. You prompted me to write a post about a pervert in my family if you want to read. SS12 is also a perv but DH doesnt see the connection that both my perv cousin and SS12 are adhd diagnosed and on the spectrum not diagnosed because of piss poor parenting. They both have impulsive behavior and dont always understand 100% right from wrong. Fucking skids. Im so over this. You can imagine what DH said when i tried to compare ss to my cousin. "JUST BECAUSE YOU HAVE SOME PERVERT IN YOUR FAMILY DONT TELL ME SS IS ANYTHING LIKE HIM". OK DH but I will not live with a registered sex offender so I hope BM will open her doors to him.

Cooooookies's picture

We really do think the lack of self moderation is because of the autism.  It's a shame for any parent who wouldn't address it as it could cause so much harm as they grow up.   As you've experienced.

Thumper's picture

Dont ya just love parents who think their kids, TEEN kids.. deserve privacy. We heard that too from dh's x.

Your bm is lucky to have you!!

We can talk a lot of garbage on here some times but when you get right down to it, many of us look out for OR have looked out for our skids like you did here.

 

 

 

Cooooookies's picture

Thanks Goodluck for the nod of appreciation as I'll certainly never get it from BM2.  She can't seer past her own selfishness to give a damn about anyone else. 

ReginaPhalange's picture

No offense but your post made me smile. I thought I was the only one that had BM use "You and your wife".  For the first 6 years of my relationship with DH it was "Tell your girlfriend".  

So petty!  And we also dealt with PAS.  BM can kiss my ass now!  I don't have to deal with her or her piece of shit son anymore.

Cooooookies's picture

Yeah she tries very hard to pretend I don't exist.  It's quite amusing to see I have such an affect on someone simply just because I breathe lol

Cooooookies's picture

I used to have a name, before I started contacting her directly to stop her from playing all her stupid games.

Now I'm just your wife, she, her and probably other choice words when she talks about me to her friends and family. 

All because I won't let her act like a thirsty ho with my DH or F up her own son.  Pathetic.