BM2 is mega raging and projecting
SS16 keeps asking questions about his BM. I don't really know where it's coming from. We have always kept our mouths shut and never said a bad word about her in front of him. But he's 16, has a brain (shocking, I know) and wants to know why she is the way she is.
He's noticing - how she never calls, parades him around when he visits, boasting about how good he's turned out because of her. Apparently she also talks to SS when he's with her about wanting to get back with DH. The kid has to be quiet about how she used to live with "Friend" back in 2017 when she moved back here for Operation Win DH Back. He has to be quiet about how she stayed with Mr. Britannia in 2018 while visiting here. He has to be quiet because BM2 still lives with on again off again bf Mr. Cyprus. She apparently says quite alot to SS16 when he's visiting her.
AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAND it all came out the other night. I was at work so DH and SS were home together. SS16 said all of the above. How he can't talk about all the men she chases after because she's living with Mr. Cyprus. How she brags she's raised him so well. SS said to DH you're the one that's raised me. She doesn't do anything for me. Why doesn't she call me? Why does she tell people she does stuff when it's you and Cookies? Why is she with other men when she lives with Mr Cyprus?
So DH told him a lot of truths. SS doesn't want fluffy answers anymore. Plain old truths. No embellishments, no slander, just the facts ma'am. Then I came home from work and verified a few things. Like how she left her underwear in our laundry basket and how she kept trying to get rid of me. Begging DH to take her back, getting frustrated because it wasn't working, so shouted "Why can't she just FACK OFF BACK TO AMERICA?!?!?!!" SS just said well that's not very good, is it? No, it's not SS.
So then he shows us a video of what he thinks of his mother. It's a few clips from the Disney movie Tangled. He says she acts just like Mother Gothel. DH and I just exchanged looks and told SS that it's sad you think that way. We wish things were different as it would be easier if we all get along, like we do with BM1. I also said I know what it's like having a challenging BM so he can chat to me anytime he likes.
All of this must've been playing on his mind because he had a messenger chat with BM2 last night. She just fired back saying DH and I are lying and I've always been mean to her and jealous of her. SS didn't say much back really. Then she fired off angry messenger messages to DH saying how dare he do this!!! How dare he come between her and SS's relationship with this non-sense. And it's none of Cookies business, why is she lying and poisoning MY son's head?!
Well truth hurts, darling. You keep raging and projecting, though. Like always, very entertaining. UGH.