So SO gets on her phone yesterday to ask her Mom what we should do about Easter. Her Mom (who I love to death) tells her that me and BD should come over for Easter, and SO should tell Ex to drop off the SKids. But she should also tell them that I will be there with BD.

I told SO that is fine as long as it is just SD15 and not SS18. If SS18 shows up I will have to leave with BD.

Now I know that neither will show up since I am going to be there, or Ex will forbid them to be there since I will be there.

To me problem is solved, I refuse to be chased away by 2 brats.