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capt_lou's picture

So me and future DW have been getting a long great for the past month or so. i think we have really turned a corner in our relationship. I have less and less feelings that she is going to revert back to her old ways and give in to the 2 spawns of hell she calls her kids.

SD15 has stated over and over that she hates to live with her dad, but refuses to live with me, so oh well, live in a 1 bedroom apartment where you are forced to sleep on a couch. Have fun with that lol.

SS18 can rot in hell. 2 weeks ago DW's aunt passes away. The day before the funeral he tells DW that him and his dad are going to jump me at the funeral. Nice! She tells her family all of this and they say not to worry they will keep a eye on my back. Well get this...After the funeral SS tells DW that he felt uncomfortable there, like everyone is watching him...Well no Shit sherlock!

DW ex is a total loser. Every week he harnesses DW via text about one thing or another. Every chance he gets he puts her down, calls her names etc... I told her that it all will stop once we are married one way or another. That I am not putting up with it anymore.

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overworkedmom's picture

I am so glad that your FDW is standing up to some pretty rotten sounding teenagers. She is lucky to have a man like you to help with the ex too. I love when my exH starts stuff and my SO stands behind me (keep in mind I an only 5 feet tall and he is 6'3") and just stares at my ex. Ex shuts up real fast and hops in his car every time. Not that we women like to admit it but it is really nice to feel safe and protected sometimes after you have been in an abusive relationship Smile

capt_lou's picture

Sounds like my FDW and her ex.

He is like 5'7" and 170lbs. I'm 6'0" 215, former bodybuilder, Marine and Bouncer. I told him once that anytime he wants to get in a ring with me that is fine. Funny how he backed down after that.

WickedStepMom18's picture

So SS and FDW's EX were planning to jump you how? From an extension ladder?!! Wink

overworkedmom's picture

I blame it on getting married at 19... at 19 I din't know crazy when I saw it and thought I could "fix" what I did see... Live and learn I guess!!

ThatGirl's picture

^This Married way too young and thought I could fix or he would change as he matured. Little did I know it would only get worse.