Sd15 Caught Again!!!! This is getting old!
So SD15 got caught sneaking a boy in @12:30am last night. Taking away the computer and phone are NOT working. She just got them back last night after her last "stunt". You ST'ers are awesome what are some different discipline ideas that will catch a teenagers attention?
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Take everything out of her
Take everything out of her room, but her bed. Give her 5 pairs of pants, 5 shirts and no make up, nothing...
She needs to learn now. She is 15 and in three years gone. You either get it right now, or give up and she is my SD18 on drugs, drinking and pictures of bongs on Twitter.
^^ What this poster said. But
All posters off the wall. Curtains? Gone. Furniture in the room? Gone.
Cancel her cell phone and thank her for saving you $x.00 per month as she will never have a cell phone again so long as she lives under your roof.
SELL her computer and cell phone/donate to goodwill etc. Let her realize these items are now permanately GONE.
Go to goodwill find her five outfits she will hate (read: baggy as HELL and something a tourist in Florida would even look at and say "no... thats simply too ugly to wear")
While your at walmart, grab her some granny panties and ugly bulky white bras.
No make up
no music
no curling irons/ straighteners
No hairspray
Generic shampoos/conditioners(if your feeling generous enough to give her conditioner)
Literally strip the kid to having NOTHING.
And she has to EARN it back by EARNING back your trust.
As a final: while you still have her cell phone-- have her daddy post on her facebook/ instagram that the next boy sneaking through a window to get into his house will be arrested and charged with felony occupied burglery.
Or shot.
Agreed I missed that one
Agreed I missed that one
Unfortunately, most parents
Unfortunately, most parents will not go to these lengths. DH knows now that if he did when she was 13, he may actually have a relationship with her today. She needs to have her world rocked. If you are strong enough and your DH is, you can turn her around now.
My SD is a slut and it started at 13 with lies about BF's and BM thinking it funny and telling her to lie to her dad. That was the start....
Thank you for the ideas, I
Thank you for the ideas, I won't be against trying ALL of this unfortunately SO is a little Disney....so he is considering the door only. Sigh....and that is the biggest problem of all.