Still no phone call, even BM is now telling my husband to call his daughter
That's it. Nothing else to say really. Will a call be made before Christmas? Looking less and less likely.
Does sd want to:
A) discuss the whole not visiting thing?
B ) tell her Dad Christmas present requests?
or C) is there some other drama brewing over there?
My guess is B or C, though if they ever do speak I hope my husband covers A.
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Its a TRAP!
We went through the same false CPS report crap. In our case it happened early July just after school let out and then it continued on through Christmas until that Christmas when they rejected our Christmas gifts that we dropped off under the direction of the Girhippo even though they were the latest and greatest toys (eyeroll). If my kids ever called CPS on me with false allegations they sure wouldn't be getting the most amazing toys for Christmas.
It took me personally a whole year to get the phony charges reversed at which point the Girhippo was enraged. She liked to go around telling people that her ex-husband was on the child abuse and maltreatment registry for New York State at the myriads of extracurriculars she signed the ferals up for.
Do not call. Instead send a Christmas card certified signature required by SD. That will tell you all you need to know.
I'm sorry you were targeted
I'm sorry you were targeted by lies. They have no basic compassion. I just couldn't imagine ever being so malicious as to deliberately lie about such serious matters, even if I hated the person.
Personally I will not be making contact. I do feel my husband should be talking to his kid and not just trying to ignore the whole thing. We have heard nothing directly from sd, only via BM so as far as we know BM could be spinning tales back to sd too that Dad hasn't set up a winter vacation visit this year and doesn't care about you. I don't think that is the case, but we just don't know what is going on with sd without any direct communication.
Update: he tells me he'll
Update: he tells me he'll talk to her tomorrow. Not sure Christmas Day is a good time for a big conversation but even if it just merry Christmas it will have opened up communication. Though if that is the case I doubt a follow up deeper conversation will happen soon.
If i were you, i wouldn't
If i were you, i wouldn't push for any communication with SD or BM. If your DH wants to, he is a big boy and knows how to use a phone. These two are still trying to frame you for child abuse that didn't happen years ago, from across the country. And you have small kids. Why would you want to force communication? Let it be. Enjoy not dealing with them.
THIS!!!!
Leave sleeping BMs/skids lie.
I do not think anyone should
I do not think anyone should chase a toxic POS. No matter who that POS may be to them. Parent, kid, sib, etc...
Do not sniff the stanky ass of a toxic POS. Ever.
Leave them to rot. If hey bull their head out of their own ass and reach out respectfully, then and only then speak with them. Even then, keep the onus on them .... and never set the precident of sniffing their ass. Ever.