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Poll - Delete and block or ignore and store?

BethAnne's picture

Just reading 4evers blog and wondered what the most popular tactics are when it comes to BS communications directly from bio-parents to step parents? Delete and block or ignore and store?

Personally I have every vile text message from BM saved for future reference and am reluctant to block BM as I want evidence that she is a crazy bitch. Luckily for me she has calmed down a lot recently so I haven't heard from her in a long time. Just wondering what you all prefer to do when you get a crazy ass email or text?

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Ninji's picture

Same with me. BM has never contacted me directly. If she ever text, emailed or assaulted me (like I've read about on here), I'd call the police and hire a lawyer. That bitch knows better than to mess with me. Besides that, if she messed with me, I'd refuse to pick up her kids from school every other Friday and that would cut way down on her party time.

misSTEP's picture

I would ignore and store but BM never once got any of my information in order to contact me in the first place! Then DH got a No Contact order in the CO so she wasn't supposed to be contacting EITHER of us.