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I MISSED MY WARNING

beendone's picture

Submitted by beendone on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 5:05pm

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: Having adult SC is far worse than dealing with little ones who don't know any better. I missed the WARNING SIGN.

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Mercury's picture

Submitted by Mercury on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 6:44pm

Gah! Me too! I asked DH that same question and got the same response from him.

I didn't miss that glaring sign though. I made DH listen to my list of deal breakers. He didn't want to think about worst case scenarios regarding his kids but I made him hear me out. There are some things I will never tolerate under my roof. Step talk really helped me with that one. I have seen way too many posts about troubled teens and young adults to let that one slide.

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Submitted by furkidsforme on Mon, 05/05/2014 - 6:18pm

Mine should have been the first time he looked at me with puppy dog eyes and pleaded "but just THINK of THE KIDS".... to talk me into some ridiculous bending over of accommodation of whack job BM.

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Submitted by omgsaveme on Tue, 05/06/2014 - 9:26am

Before I met adult SD, DH went on and on about how independent SD was, and how she has such big goals and how great she was. Then when he was drunk he said, if I didn't get along with SD that it wouldn't work out. I told him he wouldn't have to worry about that, cause if thats how it was going to be then I would be gone. Then I meet SD, the first time at the mall with her baby and DH asks does SGD need anything and SD says " no but I need new clothes and shoes, and this and that". After hitting the first few stores with them, I took my bios and told DH that I was going to hit some stores.While DH took an adult mother shopping for herself. The first time I met her I could see she was a hot mess and the next time he brought up her being independent, I broke daddys heart by telling him she is the furthest thing from being independent. He paid for damn near ALL of her bills, her clothes, her purses, and anything else she needed or wanted. She put herself first before her child and I was not cool with that. It was appalling. Disillusioned much ?