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SS10 is stealing

aug2010's picture

So amongst many bizarre moments with the SS we pick him up from BM's house friday and he is showing off these 2 rings. One looked like something out of a gumball machine but the other looked very vintage (turquoise stone with a cluster of diamonds). He claimed his mom gave them to him. I did state seems kinda odd for a 10 year old boy to have rings. To somewhat sidetrack for a moment for another odd behavior the next day prior to the finale...while my DH was working on his car SS stayed with DH's mother. While at Gma's house he made a call to BM and left a message telling her to "hurry come get him quick" we didn't find out until later when DH got a text from BM regarding the call. SS denies doing it at first then when DH says she has a voicemail to prove it he says "i might have might not I can't remember" For the finale BM's mother wanted all the grandkids at a restaurant at a certain time so as DH is leaving I advised him to give the rings to the Gma, well apparently the look on her face confirmed my SS is a thief. Now I don't want to have to worry every weekend that he's going to take something from our house and despite my multiple requestes for DH to talk to BM regarding this issue..guess what he hasn't. I don't think I should have to hide my personal belongings in fear that my ss will steal it...wtf should i do?

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cenrok's picture

For her own good, it is up to the parent to punish a child if they lie or steal. You and your husband should stand side by side as a team on this. I would be more cautious with my belongings for a while if I were you.