Finally had a sit down with BD
Its been almost 2 weeks since my daughter left after the fight she and my DH had. It was decided by her, her BioD, my mother and my sister that she would now live with BioD and stay at my Mother's house since its closer to her school. (Thanks for including me in the decisions)
Well yesterday my daughter and I finally got a chance to sit down and have a talk face to face. At first she was very angry because when I spoke about her behavior she automatically got upset and said I was defending my DH...I said nope its all about admitting where we all went wrong...anyway as we kept talking she admitted that things got out of hand because she told so many people what happened and they are angry at me and now she doesn't know what to do but go along with them because if she doesn't things will be bad for me. So now she just has to wait for everything to blow over.
Apparently she wants to come home and deal with the situation as a family but now that her dad, my mother and sister are involved and pretty much "making allll the decisions". She begged them not to get the cops involved and they made a deal with her...if she stays living with them then they won't involve the courts or cops but if she comes back home they will call the cops.
Seriously...this feels like a f*#king nightmare. I understand that everyone has concerns and rightly so but if BioDad is mentioning him not having to pay CS anymore then what is his main concern??? My sister is 24 years old a complete HOT HEAD has 2 kids and a 3rd on the way living in my mother's 1BR with her own set of problems so I really think she should be focusing on her own issues before she starts trying to "fix my life". My mother a d i dont havr a good relationship and she just goes along with everything my sister says so...WTF!!!!
I think I just need to take a step back and be away from everyone and focus on my own family...but how on earth am I supposed to do that with my daughter bouncing back and forth between them...