What makes them stop
K so last night my DH and I went to look at some auto parts that we needed about an hour from home, after he got a call from SD asking if they could come 2 hours later cuz they were at the mall school shopping. DH and I had no problem with it. He is great about checking with me if plans change, not that I usually care. Anyway, we went and decided that we would purchase these items the guy was going to deliver it that night, so we went to eat at a place by the mall, which we were spotted by SD's and BM so she called and asked if we wanted to take the kids back with us since we were down there. OK well in the mean time we pulled in to eat and I had realized I did not have my purse. Well it was a big deal because we still needed to pay for our stuff when it was delivered. I freaked, and was very upset when they pulled it. I didnt do anything major, just had a nasty look on my face and when I got out of my car, her Boyfriend was staring at me and I said "DUH"
Well later that night she gets on that damn MYSPACE and posts that she saw my temper tantrum and how she guesses the honeymoon is over. Insinuating that I was fighting with my husband. It was none of her business none the less she still felt the need to once again post shit about me online. I just don't get what makes these women tick. Neither her or her super boyfriend have a job, they live off my husband, brag how happy they are to not have to do anything and they get to spend all this time with "their" kids but still feel the need to antagonize me everychance they get. The nerve of some ppl. Her man is still married and has 2 little boys who he never sees, and they live right around the bend. Her daughter starts soccer soon, which means games and that means we have to go, and put up with her show, and online bullshit. AHHHHH Just want her to move on.
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I would guess she wants to upset you
So I would think if you want her to stop, you should pretend like it doesn't bother you. Easier said then done I know from personal experience. BM would do the most hateful things and look at me so smugly knowing she was pissing me off. A smarter SM would have pretended to ignore her but I was caught off guard and it encouraged her to continue with her childish games.
If anyone brings it up, I would look concerned and sad at the same time and just say "it's really awful that she is still so hung up on DH. I hope for the skids sake she moves on." Otherwise, I wouldn't bring it up. Pretend like you don't know or care.
"Evil Stepmothers aren't born, it comes with the territory"
April,
You are right, it was NONE of her business. I think it's pitiful she even tried to make it her business! Good grief, she's remarried and she still has this "facination" with your husband. Crazy.
I don't know the answer to the title of your blog. Ours still hasn't stopped, I don't know if she ever will. But I can give you a couple of good tips.
1. Don't read her myspace. Who gives a shit what she has to say, you certainly don't and shouldn't even waste your time reading that garbage, she obviousally types there knowing full good and well that you will read it, so DON'T. Make it easy on yourself, and don't ever entertain her thoughts, atleast not by YOU seeking them out anyways.
2. Repeat #1.
~all you need is Faith, Trust, and a little bit of Pixie Dust...and sometimes a machine gun~
thanks
You guys are 100% correct. I was doing good for awhile till she started saying that my husband was drinking and driving with his kids. NOT true, at all. I still have no idea where that came from, then I got sucked in again. I even gave up my MYSPACE just so I would save myself that grief. Damn internet. LOL It just gets rediculous. Its nice to be put back on track with everyones comments. Anger makes you blind sometimes
They stop when...
it no longer bothers you anymore. when you don't give a crap one way or another what they think, how they view you. things only bother us when we care, but I believe when we arive to that place where we know who we are & we're comfortable in our own skin, 24/7, nothing moves us. some people think that i am very arrogant & cocky at times, but I percieve myself to be very confident. Like for example, my MIL, i know she doesn't like me at all & hasn't from the very beginning & has done a lot of things to TRY to hurt me but i'm so busy w/my own life & my own world & I like my life aside from what I'm going thru w/DH. So she really doesn't have any affect on me. Also, I've learned that when a person says something negitive about me, they are only words & have no power over me unless I give them power. I know the TRUTH about myself & so becuz I know that, nothing anyone who is against me can say has any affect upon me.
Those are some major
Those are some major issues!! WTH does she even CARE??????? MOVE ON!!! I think I could probably physically assault my DH in front of BM and she could care less. Our BM is too obsessed with her own little boyfriend and all the drama he brings to care about us.