I thought, I was done!!
I had the day off from babysitting. My new furniture was coming and I thought I could get my home in order.
XSO shows up. No warning. He said, he was going to get his things. He had stbSIL with him.(I can't believe SO's daughter got knocked up by such a good guy. I feel bad for him) Great!
I decided to leave the house. I didn't want to see it.
Hours later.....My daughter and son are going to ride their bikes to the pizza shop and my D13 notices her money is gone! She had $400. We were going to redeposit it today. (We had a shopping day planned that fell through) I feel bad that we didn't do it sooner.
I called XSO. He of course, couldn't believe it,but said , he'd ask his son. SS19 is not allowed at my home for this type of crap. I was so upset to find out after, I left XSO brought SS19 to help.
XSO calls back and said,"no it wasn't SS19,damn, sorry". I told him, "of course it wasn't him, I'm calling the cops, they'll get to the bottom."
SS19 called me.Same bs story. I could hear Queen Ass (sd22) in the background "Ewe, don't talk to her." I told him, I called the cops and hung up.
Two hours later.....the cop came out to our house with my d13's money. He gave her $600 to include what he stole in December. The cop wanted to extend ss19's apology. "He's been stressed out with everything going on. He's very sorry and had no good reason to do it." I didn't, but I could press charges.
An hour ago XSO showed up. He told me, I messed up. He really wanted us to get on the right track, and once, he got his shit together he wanted us to work it out.He aslo, told me, when the cop, called him, he, said if he couldn't talk now, he could go to his work. XSO works maintenance at a counseling and troubled kid home. Go figure. I just said, "Boo, hoo, I wanted you to sort yourself out a long time ago, if anything this proves to me, I can't deal with this, forever!"
One, truck load closer to the end!!!