I don't have the energy for this!
Okay, so I used to be a member a loooong time ago. Coming back because BM is getting on my everloving nerves. Our history is sketchy at best, but recently she has gone out of her WAY to try to irritate me, and it is getting on my nerves.
My husband and I do 80% of the transportation. Today he was at work, and SD12 was here. BM texts DH and asks what time he is bringing SD home. He says he is at work, you can pick her up when you want her to come home. She says to him "TELL (my name here) to drop her off."
EXCUSE ME? Tell me? Okay. Tell me in one hand and crap in another and see which one fills up faster.
He tells her no, and goes on to say that he does the majority of the transpo. She goes on to say no you don't, just last week, I picked SD up, remember, because (insert my name here) tried to come outside half naked?
Mmmmkay. I see you are just determined work me into the convo, girlfriend. -BTW, I was half naked because we were getting ready for an adult party for ME at my house and I was wearing my costume.-
But again, what do I have to do with any of this? Nothing! Kudos to my husband for not letting her derail the convo. And yes, this is small, but she does this ALL.THE.TIME. and it is starting to work my nerves.
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You should wear the costume
You should wear the costume more often if it prompts BM to get off her lazy behind and pick up her own kids...
Oh, the costume was hot, and
Oh, the costume was hot, and my husband was decked out in full costume, too. His was a little less revealing, lol. And the reason why she was picking her up was only for her gain. SD wasn't supposed to go home til the next day. BM's sister was in town and that is the ONLY reason she picked her up early. Only when it is convenient for her, of course! SD was at my mother's house visiting with out of town family. BM made her get a ride over with my sister, without DH's knowledge, and pick her up. They got into it about that, too, but that is a whole 'nother story.
You would be happy to know I
You would be happy to know I did not drive SD over! LOL. SD called her mom and I heard BM talking to SD, something about me not wanting to drop her off. WTFever, why are you saying things about me to SD? SD had no idea there was a conflict whatsoever. Congrats, MOTY!!
I forgot to add to BM is pregnant with her third kid by a third man, and somehow that translates into A. her not being able to do anything, and B. our problem.
>>>>>I forgot to add to BM is
>>>>>I forgot to add to BM is pregnant with her third kid by a third man, and somehow that translates into A. her not being able to do anything, and B. our problem.
WWHHHAAAATTT!?!?!? Oh great, that's all she needs.
You failed to mention that when you text me the other day :jawdrop:
Good Lord.
I was a member here a long
I was a member here a long time ago too!!!
She was probably acting like that because she knew you were having your party. Just ignore her.
Ignore is my best weapon!
Ignore is my best weapon!
Oh it is such a good thing
Oh it is such a good thing that I did not marry DH until SS was over 20.
Because I would have NO PROBLEM telling BM to FUCK OFF on a regular basis.
haha the sea donkey tried
haha the sea donkey tried that telling DH to TELL me to drive SS home once. He told her "You want her to do it you're going to have to call her and ask her." She came and got SS. If she would have called me and asked me to do it I would have. But I'll be damned if she's going to tell me what to do. She also ASSumes a lot. Like the first week of school she was late picking up SS from the crosswalk...when that happens he usually just walks home it's not far...She didn't tell me she was going to be late and then she showed up at my house...and demanded to know where SS was and why I didn't know where he was...UM HELLO it's YOUR day why would I be expecting him? He had waited at the crosswalk for like 20 mins before he decided to head home. So he was enroute when she went tearing down our street to look for him. If I had known I could have walked down to the crosswalk and gotten him so he wasn't hanging out waiting for her. She then blamed me for the incident which I'm still trying to figure exactly how that was my fault.
Everything is your fault! You
Everything is your fault! You didn't know?!
I actually LIKE the fact that
I actually LIKE the fact that my DH does all the transportation. If left up to the BM, who only knows what time they would get here, if they'd even arrive. There is a list a MILE long (maybe longer) of times she was supposed to pick up or drop off... and it either happened HOURS late or not at all.
If DH and BM agree she will drop them off at noon, they MIGHT show up at 6pm.
One evening my DH called me from work (he worked 2nd shift) and said the BM was really sick and wanted to know if she could bring the SK's over so she could "rest" (mind you, she doesn't work, at the time the SK's were like 13 or 14). I told him my kids and I were leaving to go somewhere in 1 hr (5pm), so she needed to have them here. She lives 10 min away... at the appointed time, she did not show up. I took my kids and left. Came home about 2 hrs later, still nothing. At 10pm THAT NIGHT (after I had gone to bed, shut off the lights, etc) the door bell rang.
I refused to answer it, but it was them. And for being "sick" she sure was dressed up.
She proceeded to call my DH at work and rip him a new one about how INCONSIDERATE I was to NOT ANSWER THE DOOR when she brought them over, blah blah blah... how I'm unpredictable, can't keep my word, irresponsible. Yet she refused to tell DH exactly what time she decided to show up.
Oh well. She's never asked again. Problem solved.
Aww, you ruined her night
Aww, you ruined her night out. How COULD you?! }:)
Ripley, I have no idea. I
Ripley, I have no idea. I have driven her home before, plenty of times, but lately I have been bowing out of matters with the whole thing, and DH knew I wouldn't take too kindly to 1. having her TELL me what to do, and 2. doing anything for her.