Adult Stepchildren Issues

So My husband and I both have been disengaged from sd18 for about two years after a summer visitation from hell. Me more so than him but contact has been minimal.

I have two stepkids on the verge of adulthood.

OSD31 came. We had a fantastic weekend. OMG! Incredible!! Was probably the best Father's Day weekend ever for my DH! She was so easy. No drama. Great conversation. My DH was so happy.

I'm a newbie here but I've been reading for months. Just decided to get on the bandwagon tonight and will post my story soon...but...SD21 sent a "short and sweet" Father's Day text a few minutes ago.

I'm not going to do it.

But I really want to go post on SS27's page about what an ass he was today for totally neglecting DH.

Okay, I am very curious how y'all Father's Day went. Aside from the alien encounter with the ex's friend on Friday nite, ......las predicted, dh did not hear from the offspring.

I found a letter written by Daisy when she was 21!!

Excerpt:
'Dear Dad,
Are you sure you want to marry her, because you thought you'd be married to Mum forever and that didn't work out.

I'm so confused! Over 2 years ago my boyfriends daughter has moved in with us. Her BM could not handle her because she was mouthing off to her.

My DH and I have been together for 13 years. SDs are 23 and 22 and I did help with raising them a bit. Fast forward a bit. Older SD got preggo at 16 and she had another a year ago.

After the saccharin behavior of the Twit lately that is totally not normal for her, things came to a head today. I lost it and blew up at her.