1. Christmas- BM wants to split x-mas every yr with one having SS x-mas eve and the other having him x-mas day so we both get to see him on x-mas.
General Discussion
We just got a very long voice mail from BM regarding these issues followed by a email what should we do
Submitted by sarah1971 on Sat, 10/11/2008 - 4:51pm.His thought process?
Submitted by stepmom2be on Thu, 10/09/2008 - 12:39pm.As many of you know- J's asked me to move out.
You Just Might be a Stepmom IF. . .
Submitted by crayon on Thu, 10/09/2008 - 11:01am.Ok I'll start.
You Just Might Be a Stepmom if:
You check the calendar thrice before planning a romantic night out with your Hubby
Feeling critical, judgmental and hostile towards SKID
Submitted by Endora on Thu, 10/09/2008 - 8:57am.I know this is something I am trying to work on. I will be reprimanding SS for something, and DH will witness and say I am being too hard on SS 16. I realize I am doing it.
Did I make the right decision???? Divorce due to BM's lack of Support
Submitted by HawaiianSK on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 11:08pm.I want to THANK everyone who reads this and all replies have been and will be so helpful, keep them coming.
For Crayon and buddies-response to an old post HOOTERS
Submitted by Endora on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 8:29pm.Step Parenting – you might need to step back before you step in something! -I know it is an old post however..
Pulling my rapidly-graying hair out over watching SD turn into BM
Submitted by chickadee on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 11:12am.I am so sick of the sinking feeling and the horrible panicky sensations I get every time my SD's name is mentioned, I just have to share it with someone. SD is 16 and lives with BM and SS (13).
It finally happened... we broke up.. kinda
Submitted by stepmom2be on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 10:29am.I have to say… I checked this site daily to see when it went back up, and when it did- the irony of all that had happened- well.. sucks.
RETREAT: LESS THAN TWO WEEKS TO GO update..
Submitted by stepwitch on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 10:17am.I don't know about the rest of yall, but I was beginning to have withdrawls from Step Talk being down.....
How the Evening Went...
Submitted by Endora on Tue, 10/07/2008 - 9:26am.DH is working evening shift-I am home with SS 16 “Zippy”-who does not leave the house, mostly he sits in front of the TV or in his dark, smelly room in front of the computer.
I've been gone a month, we are in counseling, today he gave me till Wed.
Submitted by DealinWithTheDevil on Mon, 10/06/2008 - 3:06pm.So i left a month ago.......and we are seeing a counselor to try to mend all of the damage.......
Stepmom Sing Along
Submitted by crayon on Fri, 09/19/2008 - 1:29pm.Sung to the tune of Cindy Lauper's "Girls Just Want to Have Fun:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tqf9PuKi63E
I come home in the evening light
I tell DH when he’s gonna live his life right
“OH Stepmom dear, we are the fortunate ones”
Need Input from those who are attending the Retreat......
Submitted by stepwitch on Fri, 09/19/2008 - 11:00am.I have been investigating some ideas for our retreat. We all go thru different and specific events that rock our world in step parenting and there are several that are common umongst us all. I would like to have some type of constructive discussions about topics that are important and relative to our roles of being stepmoms. I would like our camp to be a place of self reflecting and self healing and have a whole bunch of fun all in one !!
what a week and its not over yet
Submitted by doglover1 on Thu, 09/18/2008 - 2:37pm.Terrible week. Had relatives in for 3 days so I was cooking and cleaning and entertaining. While still working my 2 jobs. All the while I had this darn tooth ache. Yesterday BM calls and says she cant take care of Sd because she has no gas at her house.
Time to Get Some Ass About Me !!
Submitted by stepwitch on Thu, 09/18/2008 - 1:33pm.Thank you everyone who replied to my post about losing it ! Man, what a horrible weekend ! I think I'm getting more grey hair!
I let my husband read my post and read the responces. I told him about this site and his responce at the time was that he was glad that I had this site for support. After he read the post and responces he truely had a better understanding and his opinion still holds true.










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