I posted a blog about SS starting to call & talk, very bluntly & honestly with DH before Christmas. He expressed a desire to spend some time with us on Christmas Eve, but we never heard back, so it never happened.

We were hopeful that his very frank & honest comments were signs that he was beginning to do some real soul-searching & that perhaps he was at a point where he was ready to start making an effort to heal his relationship with DH.

So literally every time we pick up the skids, the girls have brand new outfits.. And this morning their school was cancelled and SHOCKER sd's have brand new clothes on. Now don't get me wrong, I'm glad scanky bm gets the kids clothes, but is it really necessary to buy them new clothes EVERY day?!?! Perhaps this is why bm NEVER has money to buy food and feed them?! Like last wknd we picked the kiddos up late (around 9 pm) so we get home around 10 pm and all 3 skids say " I'm hungry!!" Well did you guys eat dinner? "No, we haven't ate since our school lunch". NICE.

So I get up this morning and as I entered the washroom, guess what I see laying on the washroom floor? My SD left her babies used pamper (opened) on the washroom floor, along with her babies T-Shirt and the babies tub filled with water! Now who does that? Talking about unsanitary! I was furious! I quickly emailed my husband! I also took a picture with my cell phone just in case he didn't believe me and forwarded that along with my email! I am at my wits end with this situation! Why is it so hard for you to clean up after your baby?

Praise the Lord and pass the ammuntion!!!

It's only 149 days or 21 weeks and 2 days until my last skid turns 18!!!!
If you want to calculate how many more days until your skids turn 18, here's the link.

http://www.easysurf.cc/ndate2.htm

I am so sick of being stuck with my ss right now. But to give him credit he is trying to make up for the fact that he bashed me in my own home while his mother was there. But I am going to change that. He never would have turned on me if she hadn't been there-in my kitchen where she don't belong.

So my DH and I have been off work together for the last 3 days. We have been with the kids... SS11 BD11 BS4 and I havent said A WORD towards or about SS ...and I feel good about that...especially because SS is being his annoying, misbehaving self in front of DADDY!!! And DADDY is dealing with it!! Im so surprised!!! Usually SS is only with his dad one whole day ALONE....and he acts like an angel... so DADDY is seeing what I have been telling him all ALONG!!!! Is there light at the end of this TUNNEL?????

Wow!!! DFH split up not too long ago but took a test tonight and yup, pregnant :jawdrop: !!! I am going to take more tomorrow but I am pretty sure theres no such thing as false pos... right??? What the heck am I supposed to so now?!?! In serious need of advice!!! (abortion will NOT happen!)
Thank you luvs

Seems like a lot of people on here are getting divorces or are thinking about getting divorces.

met man that pursured me, liked him, after 2wks, moved in to another house that his father lived in to enable him to ensure, lived there alone with thought of any family member being able to visit, all went well until 2yrs later when finances proved problematic, moved into his trailer during winter months due to cash on demnand for heat,stayed for approx.

You know, I love my SO but he is freakin clueless and I guess I have some thinking to do. I tell him I am just disengaging. I'll cook and clean like I normally do. But I will NOT go shopping for anything special for his kids again, I will not pick them up their favorite foods when requested at the grocery store, I will cook ONE meal at dinner and if his kids don't like it they can either eat it anyway, go hungry, or he can make them something. I will not do their laundry.